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Have あなた ever heard of something like this and/or seen it person...?

I feel like I might be the only person ever who does it. Whenever my parents, either one of them, are upset または angry, I immediately assume it's because of me. And that makes me feel so terrible I HURT myself, because I 愛 them so much and hate myself if I though I made people as great as them feel bad... I'll bang my head against the ウォール and tell myself I'm worthless and a disgrace to the family name, things like that, until they find out, calm me down, tell them I'm not the reason for their upset-ness and convince me I'm not worthless... I'm basically like a house elf from Harry Potter when they know they've done wrong. Please don't say anything rude about this. I seriously want to know, have あなた ever witnessed または heard of anyone else doing that? Does this seem normal?
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Any suggestions on how I could stop it would be helpful too... I've tried just not doing it and fighting the urge, but I can't help it.....
someone_save_me posted １年以上前
 someone_save_me posted １年以上前
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justleeelee said:
I've seen あなた do that plenty of times, but otherwise, no, sorry... I can't believe あなた still do this, you've been doing it since あなた were 2... あなた need to try and talk with mom and dad again about this...
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posted １年以上前 
Jeffersonian said:
I've never witnessed something like that but I would suggest first off try every morning looking in the mirror and saying something good about yourself. Also accept that parents will fight occasionally and that does not mean the child is the cause of it...parents just fight.
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posted １年以上前 
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Um, my parents never fight and I never 発言しました anything about that..... I 発言しました when they're upset または mad, not necessarily at each other...
someone_save_me posted １年以上前
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Sorry, I assumed since mine do fight a lot (over really stupid things...).
Jeffersonian posted １年以上前
ShiningsTar542 said:
I 愛 them so much, and I never ever wish any of them to get hurt または to be dead. I get astonished of the person that hates their parents. I just stand for them and defend them, especially when any of my フレンズ offends them even jokingly. But your psychological state (sorry for saying that) I mean your frame of mind (if that can make up) is a little bit weird to me. I mean, I know it when they are upset because of me, または mad at me. As well as if they are upset of something else. But I don't hurt myself, I just blame myself.
And that's it, everything gets alright after then.

But don't be worried, maybe it's because あなた 愛 them so much as あなた said.
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posted １年以上前 
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" I'm sure of what you've 発言しました there that your parents 愛 あなた too, and definitely more. :)" Now the last part of that sentence is bullshit. It is impossible for anyone to 愛 anyone else as much as I 愛 my parents. Especially "more"...
someone_save_me posted １年以上前
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I was trying to help out...? ._____. Did I make it worse?
ShiningsTar542 posted １年以上前
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Yeah...
someone_save_me posted １年以上前
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..Now?
ShiningsTar542 posted １年以上前
bubblewrapblues said:
I've heard of people doing things like that, but not for the same reason as you.
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posted １年以上前 
LeatherRain said:
No.... sorry...
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posted １年以上前 
dontaskhowiknow said:
Nope, sorry. If I were あなた I'd just, eh I dunno, go see a therapist または talk to your parents about it, または just take really deep breaths and drink some water when あなた feel those impulses coming... yeah my アドバイス sucks I'm sorry....
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