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Any advice,please? I need help!

So my dog died couple of days 前 but my mom didn't tell me.. She 発言しました "he run off" and "what are あなた going to do when he dies,he is old.." but i didn't want to think anything over.. Than i overheard my brother and grandmother talking about lying to me because i'll be sad.. And from then i pressed my feelings but now it just came up.. I act in school like everything's okay but i don't know who i should talk to.. i'm so sad and even もっと見る sadder than my family didn't tell me.. I spend my life with him and now he's gone.. I'm starting to cry even when i think of him,and あなた should know i don't cry allot..
Please help me,what should i do? :'(
 piperleoforever posted 1年以上前
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Goldilottes said:
I'm in a similar situation to this.
あなた need some time to be on your own without any disturbances to come to terms with everything. あなた need to understand that your family were worried about あなた being upset about the dog, so thats why they didnt tell you, although personally i think they should never have lied to you. あなた need to, when the time is right, talk to the most trusted member of your family about your feelings and everything, and calmly ask why they lied to you. there's probably a good reason, and get things out in the open and cleared up.

A lot of bad things have happened to me too recently so i know what あなた mean about the pretending everythings ok at school, because that seems like the easiest way. maybe if あなた have a really trusted best friend あなた could tell her how yu feel, または even your favourite teacher if they are nice. I've felt the same as youve described since my special cat died too- a couple of months ago, which was partially my fault and i feel terrible about it and cry all the time because of the other pressures too. I am planning in the 次 few months to get a new rescue kitten to make me feel better and to keep my other cat company. maybe あなた could, in a few months after everythings settled down go out to choose your own rescue puppy, and youd feel better because あなた were giving an animal a home. あなた should talk this through with your family and tell them how much it would mean to you.
あなた should also keep a locked diary of your current feelings または a パスワード protected word document- you'd be surprised how much easier it feels just to have it all on paper instead of clogging up your mind.
あなた should also get some hobbie to take your minbd off things- maybe look in the back of tabloids for hobbies または youth clubs, または your school bulletin / noticeboard for after school clubs. または even arrange a 日 out または a sleepover with your フレンズ and tell them some things about how あなた feel then with out the pressure of school.

If あなた do all または some of these things, hopefully あなた will start to feel better. Hopefully あなた will feel a bit better soon x

Lottey<3 XX
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posted 1年以上前 
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thank あなた so much
piperleoforever posted 1年以上前
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xx its ok hun :)
Goldilottes posted 1年以上前
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