Yes, and I don't think あなた can understand how it feels until it happens to you. I always thought I understood, then it happened to me and it was 10 times worse. People can be so horrible, it makes me want to cry. Luckily I've never been physically abused によって bullies, but sitting in a classroom with a group of bitches talking about あなた right in front of your face is bad enough. I've had things thrown at me, I've been laughed at too many times to remember. You've always got to remember to think positively though, you've got to try not to care, you've got to not let them get to you. Because you're richer inside than they'll ever be, and あなた must believe that. Always.
actually I bully people who are bullies (i know they are 'cause they are bullying someone at that moment) and if they're my age(so around 16). does that make me as low as actual bullies?
for as long as I remember I've dealt with bullying, mostly because of my autism. I've had rock, pinecones, pencils, pens, and sticks thrown at me, I've been poked in the back of the head and the shoulder and I have to deal with a lot of staring from other people. It's like they expect me to throw a major tantrum like I used to but I haven't thrown one since I was eleven and によって then I was finally starting to get help and learning to finally act like a normal kid. I just wish those kids could see that already. I have serious trust issues because all of my old "friends" were only with me because they wanted something from me または because they felt sorry for me. Pathetically enough, whenever I see the people who were so cruel to me または still are, I either stare at the floor and shy away from them または I hurry to a private place to cry. The bullying only stopped when I made a poem about "my curse" in my contemporary issues class for a project, especially when I almost started crying while 読書 it because it's so depressing
I know, I'm totally pathetic
posted １年以上前
I have autism as well, and let me tell you, i've gone through so much trauma from bullying, that i'll break someone's limb if i'm angered enough. I really know how あなた feel...
Yes and it is a very serious subject. If あなた 投稿されました this 質問 to be mean/sarcastic, that's sad; actually, it makes me wonder if あなた were the bully. ??? Anywho, あなた should really take stuff seriously before あなた post thoughtless/careless questions. :(
I don't want to admit it...but I think I was a bully( sometimes, not always ) myself! * now I want to hear your angry コメント like How could あなた and et cetera" Come on, I was like 13 I was not thinking that my コメント about someone's appearance would hurt their feelings
posted １年以上前
im not going to judge あなた for your past. however, i dont think あなた can make exceptions about your age. The people that bully me are 13, and they know what they're doing alright. I'm not going against you, I'm glad あなた can notice it and can look back on your actions and have stopped. I'm just saying that I do think that 13 is old enough to know the right way and the wrong way, I'm 13 myself. And just for the record, I'm not saying I'm perfect, I've made mistakes. But I do think that most 13 年 old bullies can see what they're doing.
I've been bullied since I was.... let's see..... three.... and I'm still bullied. Although, I've become もっと見る of a bully this 年 because of the treatment I've gotten over the years. I've even earned the nickname "Karma" because apparently I reward those who do good towards others and punish those who hurt others. I'm actually going to counseling to work out my mental issues and hopefully I become a nicer person towards others.
posted １年以上前
That's great! :) Instead of calling あなた karma, I'd refer to あなた as "The Punisher" lol
yeah i was bullied a lot i got bullied to the point that i ロスト the trust in people and so i became shy and antisocial i even hurt myself a lot got some scars on my arm but now i still get bullied sometimes but now i do not cut myself anymore now i just ignore theme and continue with life.
posted １年以上前
did あなた say you're too nice to be bullied? that's the reason i AM bullied, because I'm nice, and I'm not a bully. I get bullied because I stuck up for a victim of bullying. its ridiculous.
No, but sometimes annoyed but I fight back if I get bullied and even when I see someone get bullied I try to help and never let a bully get away with it so FUCK OFF bullies XD
that's pretty sad, あなた should think of what あなた could be doing to them, あなた don't know what living conditions they're in または anything...take note of it.
Here is a quote によって someone on my fanlist on facebook. "The Girl あなた just called fat? She has been starving herself & has ロスト over 30lbs. The Boy あなた just called stupid? He has a learning disability & studies over 4hrs a night. The Girl あなた just called ugly? She spends hours putting makeup on hoping people will like her.The Boy あなた just tripped? He is abused enough at home. There's a lot もっと見る to people than あなた think...."
^that quote makes me cry. Jacobblackswife, just remember, what goes around comes around. true story.there's もっと見る to life that Jacob Black. Maybe あなた could make someone smile for a change, its a lot もっと見る rewarding. and the fact that あなた realize what you're doing, well, think 次 time. think how you'd feel in that position. its not funny, its heart-breaking.
Tamar 20 stfu i dont appreciate your sarcasm. did i say i was proud? no. did i put an ecessive amount of exclamation marks of even a smile at the end? no.
I have been bullied for being unlike everyone else, I have been bullied for liking cars rather than sports, for having only one friend, for having asperger's syndrome, for liking Japanese culture, and many other things. I have bullied for people being idiots in my class and constantly disrupting it.
posted １年以上前
Those sound like very piss-poor reasons to bully someone. I gues they find whatever they can get to make someone elses life hell. It's ridiculous.
Yes, but not によって a peer, no. I've been bullied によって teachers on several occasions. No one should have to go through being bullied. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It makes あなた feel like absolute shit. If someone figures that there is even a slight possibility that they can walk all over あなた and get away with it, they will, and with every effort to make themselves feel good and superior, to the point that it makes あなた feel worthless. Not a pretty place to be.
posted １年以上前
i hate that hun, it sucks i know..but i've never been bullied によって teachers, that's a new one. :( i'm sorry.:(
Yes I have been bullied, I've lived with it almost every 日 for the past 6 または so years. My step-dad is one of my biggest bullies. He finds ways of hurting me every chance he gets to, it pisses me off so much. Another thing is the bitches i go to school with, either with their damn drama, または what they still find time to pick on someone 'lower' then them. It's so stupid!
Yes, all my life. によって other kids, people i pass on the street, によって people I've never even seen before. That's what happens when your born with a very conspicuous disfigurement on your face and the doctors refuse to remove it early on. But there's nothing i can do about it now. I've always been bullied and I'll continue to be bullied for the rest of my life, I've had years to except that.
posted １年以上前
That's horrible! :O People need to learn that beauty is only skin deep -_-
They never will. Even my family are repulsed によって my appearence (i can see it in their faces) That's how the world works. if your ugly, あなた might as well kill yourself yo avoid future pain.
Most probably a simple stranger feeling sorry for あなた won't make あなた feel better , but this really made me sad , how mean and judgemental people can be , I am sorry for you.
Thank あなた for being concious of what effect your words may have. Your words won't turn my life around, but it still made me feel a fraction better, and for that あなた have my gratitiude.
Yes,I was bullied in high school によって some d*ckhead who thought it'd be cool to 表示する off to his friends.It only happened for a short while because my parents got it sorted out,but while it was happening,it made my life hell :(
posted １年以上前
thank god your parents intervened. Most of them never do.
People shouldn't suffer in silence :( It was only because my grandma found me crying that she found out,and I'm glad she did,that put him in his place :)
Yes, to the point where I was trying to kill myself in the 2nd grade. I have been bullied my entire life. I have all kinds of emotional and mental issues (that may または may not have been there before, but I'll never know) now. No one deserves to be put through the kind of pain I was put through. I'm glad you've never been bullied though.
posted １年以上前
I am so teribbly sorry that you've been put through such pointless suffering. There is probably nothing i can say to あなた that can help, because i'd be lying if i 発言しました everything will be all right eventually.
Yeah, I learned that, but I also know that those kids will end up working minimum wage jobs when I'm earning 120,000 dollars a 年 with my money from my novels so it's all good. My issues also help a lot with creativity, if あなた know what I mean.
That is the key way to look at it :) People who bully only have insecurities about themselves so when あなた have a nice house with a fantastic career and lots of money,you'll have the last laugh ;)
When I was in kindergarten some grils scratched my hands , there were some ugly marks. But if I would see them today I would most probably beat them up lol ...they were kind of snobs.
Yes I have been for years but not hardely anymore since I'm in high school. I've gotten tripped, had pencils thrown at me, pine cones, paper, erasers, and several other things. It was worse but now I only get bullied a few times a month.
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