In desperete need of help.

I can see why あなた might be a little desperate. Confusing feelings always make things look a lot harder. Are あなた sure you're not in 愛 with her? I think あなた just thought that was it, because あなた were afraid of losing her as a friend and あなた wanted to 表示する her that あなた care about her. It's obvious that she has some issues herself. She has no faith in love, but wants to be loved very badly. What won't help her is faking feelings towards her. Neither one of あなた will get any happier によって that. あなた shouldn't feel like her well-being is your sole responsibility and you're not allowed to be confused によって feelings yourself. あなた shouldn't feel bad because あなた told her あなた loved her as a lover when あなた don't, because あなた didn't say it to make her feel bad.

What I think あなた should do, is explain everything to her. Tell her what あなた went through あなた when she 発言しました she'd quit ファンポップ forever. Tell her how bad so felt when あなた realised you're not in 愛 with her and how afraid あなた were when あなた thought about dissappointing her. Tell her あなた want the best for her. 表示する her that she shouldn't have so less faith in love, because she is loved によって あなた (as a friend) and that あなた are there for her to help her with her 愛 life. 愛 between フレンズ (especially at your age) can be so much longer-lasting and unconditionally than a fleeting passion between lovers... The fact that あなた felt the need to ask people for help with this shows that あなた care deeply for her and her well-being. So give her what あなた can give her, namely a great friendship, support and the feeling of being loved によって a friend.

It will be up to her from that point. If she accepts this and is happy with what あなた can give her, she is もっと見る than worth your energy.
If she doesn't, her problems are deeper than what あなた can handle. Tell her that you'll be there for her when she changes her mind, but don't let her problems become yours. あなた were willing to make yourself completely vulnerable によって telling exactly how あなた feel, and if she doesn't see または appreciate that, she's not worth your friendship.

Good luck!

oh dear this is tricky. go along with the whole 愛 thing. if your only フレンズ on ファンポップ then im sure this 愛 will slowly fade, for her too. just try to hang in there until she feels like she just loves あなた as a friend. I hope this works!

(ps. r u a guy または a girl?)