WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!!!!!!HELP ME PLEASE!

I broke up with my boy friend and now I miss him SOOOO much that I'm starting to cry my eyes out! But I can't get back with him no matter how much I want becauee he's with my friend, Nikki, and I know he didn't do it on purpose.I broke up with him becaude he was completely in 愛 with me and I wasn't sure abot my feelings but now I see I AM IN 愛 WITH HIM!!!!! Only it's TOO late, and I don't want to 移動する on....God what do I do? I mean they have so much in common and I can't take him away from her または her away from him. It's like they belong together! Ugh!!!!!!!!!! I'M SUCH AN IDIOT!!!!!!!!!
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OMG its like we have the exact same story! except im still trying to get over him. And also, my friend's name is nikki too!!!!!
faiyah226 posted 1年以上前
 Dhampires posted 1年以上前
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Bond_Of_Fury said:
あなた should 移動する on. You've had your chance with a great guy. Are あなた willing to give that something あなた liked so much to your friend? I would be very proud of あなた if あなた are.
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posted 1年以上前 
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i made the same mistake but he didnt want me back,so i moved on to someone who treated me better
XionIX posted 1年以上前
Jillywinkles said:
Yeah あなた should let them be happy. Sometimes this happens, when you're not with them あなた remember all the good things and forget all the bad things, because from a distance they seem so happy together. あなた probably made the right decision.
Anyway if he was willing to go be with your friend, he couldn't have cared for あなた that much. Out there is someone who will be so deeply in 愛 with you, he will fight for あなた no matter what. あなた will find him!
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posted 1年以上前 
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Personally, I think あなた should tell him how あなた feel and then let them & their relationship play out.

If it were me, I would pray about it FIRST (IF I remember to), IF あなた pray, and then muster your strength & composure & tell them BOTH... but very matter-of-factly as much as possible.

That way it will be out there and everyone can 移動する on (but see-their deal may not work out and then あなた will not be held in suspicion または blame または thought ill of if あなた DO end up back together it will be for the RIGHT reasons, not because あなた kept it a secret, hid your feelings away または lied または ストール, 盗んだ him back from your friend または had him cheat!) Let it be but be truthful.
This may not go over well with them at first, but it is "feelings" and your truth, not an action to hurt them, even if they do not undertsand. If あなた do it lovingly & your motives are right and not decietful または scheming-then あなた should NOT feel bad no matter what または their raction-because that is THEIR choice.

You'll cry & hurt, but that is part of the natural part of it. あなた could loose them BOTH によって being honest -sure &/or it could be awkward, but see, it WILL be awkward anyway-even if あなた keep it in, then neither of them knows your ハート, 心 and あなた will have to talk to other people and/or watch in silence.

I've seen girls who choose the quiet & sneaky route または swoop in after-and it is NOT cool または good.

I don't think it right to ever try to break someone up または get in the way of a relationship, like あなた said. It doesn't mean your feelings are not valid または important EITHER, though. It also -in my opinion- doesn't mean it not worth the risk to be honest... I just think あなた should be honest and then back off, and tell them that, and let it ride and play out. It takes patience, but I think it is the right thing to do and that anything else could totally screw up one または もっと見る things (maybe important things & あなた don't wanna make that mistake KNOWINGLY. This deal -breaking up- wasn't done intentionally as a "knowingly" wrong thing. あなた did what あなた thought was right at the time...

now do what あなた think is "right" at THIS time ;)
Good Luck.
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