2.Break the キッス barrier (optional). If you're feeling brave, test the waters with a small キッス on the hand または the cheek. If the other person seems interested, it's probably 安全, 安全です to proceed with a キッス on the mouth.
If you're キス a girl: Take her hand and slowly lift it to your mouth. Gently press your lips into the back of your hand for 2 または 3 秒 before breaking away.
If you're キス a guy: Lean in and plant a 2- または
3.-second キッス on his cheek. Keep your lips soft, and avoid puckering like あなた would if あなた were キス a family member. If あなた want your intentions to be extra clear, aim for the part of his cheek just to the side of his lips.
3 Set the mood with a romantic compliment. Go big and pay the other person the sincerest compliment あなた can think of. If あなた get it right, the other person might take the lead and lean in to キッス you.
Say it in an intimate way. Lower the volume and tone of your voice slightly, and lock eyes. Not only does this communicate that あなた have deep feelings for this person, it entices him または her to come closer to hear you.
Focus on an alluring quality. Even if あなた truly think that your 日付 is an amazing バスケットボール, バスケット ボール player, now might not be the best time to bring it up. Instead, base your compliment on how あなた see your 日付 as a romantic partner. Here are some possibilities あなた can try:
"You are SO beautiful."
"Your eyes drive me crazy."
"I 愛 to see あなた smile."
"I can't even believe I'm lucky enough to be with あなた right now."
4.If all else fails, go for broke and state your intentions. If your 日付 hasn't picked up on any of your hints and you're dying to lock lips, あなた might as well be straightforward and just ask if あなた can キッス him または her. Don't worry, though — あなた can be direct while still being romantic and compelling. Try these phrases if you're at a loss for words:
"I'd 愛 nothing もっと見る than to キッス あなた right now."
"I'm sorry if this is too forward, but I'd really like to キッス you."
"I want to キッス あなた so much that it is just about killing me."
5.Go in for the kiss. Don't waste any time once あなた have the go-ahead — close your eyes, lean in and smooch! The 次 sections will discuss some キス techniques, as well as how to handle キス in different dating situations such as a first キッス または キス after a date
