It’s been nearly 3 years since I last went out on a date and I was never the type of guy who was good at approaching women, much less talking to them. To avoid making a fool of myself, I decided I would try the whole online dating thing. I’ve been reading a really good international dating blog but there isn’t really anything about good conversation starters. How should I message a girl first? What are some good conversation starters that can capture their attention to get some responses? Would really appreciate the help.