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This Is A Relationship Problem That I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!

I have this friend whom I have known for nearly two years and as time pasted we grew closer, as I started to help him get over his past and helping him learn to control his anger and even be his shoulder to cry on.I helped him and showed him 愛 in a way no one else could または would. Over time he began seeing me as もっと見る than a friend and fell hard for me, he tested me and told me his feelings which I was stunned によって but also happy. I told him I'd 愛 to go out with him but I just didn't feel the same way and I can only hope they never did. He was disappointed but went along with it. And over a 月 または two one night I just 発言しました "Yes, I'll go out with you." Why? Because he sweet talked me that night (he did it before that too though) and my ハート, 心 was swept away によって him. Ok so I went out with him but every time he touched me I didn't feel that tingle when あなた touch some あなた like let alone heat, when talks to me I don't stop and stare in his eyes, my ハート, 心 does pound at 100 miles an hour. I just don't get ANY of those feelings I did when I had my first and 秒 crush. My ハート, 心 isn't in it with him, yet I tell him I 愛 あなた and I act like the perfect girl friend when we make out and talk, he feels like he is heaven (and I KNOW he does because I see it on his face and I HEAR it in his voice) but me? Nothing. None of that happens to me. I want to 愛 him but I just can't for some reason! AND I DON'T KNOW WHY?!?!?!!!! We have been dating for a good eight months now and NOTHING has changed!!! I get the feeling we are not to be no matter how much I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I just don't feel anything....I told him and he 発言しました they'd come but they haven't.
 Dhampires posted 1年以上前
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Rainshadow999 said:
I think you're worrying too much about whether あなた like him または not. That wasn't supposed to offend あなた but it is the truth…let me start over.

You're worrying too much :D
Actually you're either worrying too much または thinking too much, stop think if あなた like him または not and get to know him more…maybe あなた need もっと見る trust from him?
Be happy, you're 14! (I checked your profile) That means あなた shouldn't be concerned about your feelings for him unless they're happy-go-lucky!

I hope half of this made sense…I wouldn't know what to do either, if あなた need もっと見る help あなた can always send me a message :)
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posted 1年以上前 
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I'd have to agree. Maybe if あなた find out もっと見る about him the feelings wll come? I don't know. Good アドバイス though. :)
PucksLady posted 1年以上前
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