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Idk if anyone will answer but... I really need some help.

Ok so I finally got the courage to tell this guy at my school that I like him but not face to face through a note. Anyways, after I told him, My フレンズ decided to talk to him for me since I'm really shy about it and they 発言しました He dosen't like me back and He started making a big deal about it. Btw we used to be フレンズ and talk alot and have alot of the same interests. My フレンズ also told me that He's not mad at me または anything He just feels really akward and he thinks My crush on him is weird. So now He won't even talk to me anymore, He just ignores me like I'm not even there. I try and talk to him but He just still ignores me so I'm starting to think He hates me and He dosn't want to be my friend anymore now that I told him. My フレンズ just say to not worry about it and that He's not worth the time and stuff like that. So I'm just really confused and I just really need help. I really don't know what else to do and how he can talk to me again. Btw He didn't talk to me at all about it and this is also my first time telling a guy I like them. Thanks for 読書 and please Help! :p
 ice2504 posted 1年以上前
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coriann said:
あなた seem like a shy person, または at least not someone who is very confident in the way she feels. Look, あなた have every right to feel like あなた are in 愛 with someone, whoever it is, and sometimes that emotion can feel like it's too much to handle. I personally think あなた did the right thing by...sort of telling him I guess. But あなた shouldn't use your friends. This is a personal issue that あなた should have to face head on. Yes, あなた can rely on your フレンズ to do many things for you, but some things need to be done によって you. Confessing your 愛 to someone, at least IMO, is one of those things. あなた should be able to confront the situation the way あなた see fit and say what あなた know あなた need to say. There's little regret after that, trust me. あなた asked me if I know a lot about guys. I know about people, and I know girls AND guys, like confidence.

It might be too late to gain a relationship, as in a bf/gf relationship but it's not too late to confront the situation and say what あなた need to say to him. I had a friend who I had a crush on, and they found out in a rather weird way, and they stopped talking to me too. But it wasn't because they didn't like me, it was because of their own fears and concerns. We only spoke a long time after it happened. My only regret is not talking to them when it still mattered, but あなた can still do it. Think about it.

Anyway, I think that whatever yo do, あなた should do what feels right to YOU. So...Good Luck :P
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Thank あなた so much for the advice!
ice2504 posted 1年以上前
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np
coriann posted 1年以上前
Frozengirl11 said:
I feel u. I asked the same 質問 on here, I told a boy I know that I have a crush on him, & things haven't been the same. U can check it out if u'd like. Just give it some time & hopefully he'll come around. Good luck:)
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MaxandMart said:
You've tried talking to him, your フレンズ have tried talking to him on your behalf, and he still does not talk to you. Try one last time - ask him outright - do あなた want to be フレンズ - if he does not answer または does not want to be friends, then 移動する on.

If he does want to remain フレンズ with you, then tell him he needs to communicate with you.

Right now, from the information あなた have 与えられた me, I would say he seems like a ロスト cause - but give him that last chance anyway - that way あなた know that it is not あなた for sure - it is him and his childishness.
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