Am I the only one angry at the boys as well in the whole Amber Cole fiasco?

I was surfing the YouTube site, looking at people's reactions to Amber, and it's either she's a whore または she shouldn't be criticized so harshly. No one, absolutely NO ONE, ever mentioned the boys who recorded the incident または the guy recieving the *ahem*. Basically, the boys are getting away with it, as if Amber gave herself *ahem* and no one else was involve in the deed. Why are we still letting the double standard rule our way of thinking? Why is it that only Amber gets punished and the boys practically praised? That just pisses me off, how women are punished for expressing their sexual freedom while men are down-right praised for it!

Now, I am not defending Amber, I just believe that if she's getting burned for this one act, every one guilty of this should be burned as well!