posted by Alifya
So where exactly are あなた supposed to meet these great new pals? Sitting in your room isn't going to make it happen! Start によって getting involved in the activities and interest あなた already 愛 whether it's an online Winx ファン club または a local バレーボール league. Being the new kid in the group will feel weird at first, but remember, you're all there because あなた share the same interests. What could be a better ice breaker? If あなた think you're already way involved and still aren't connecting with people, it might be time to step back and re-evaluate how あなた act around others. Don't be too haughty または condescending. It is far もっと見る important to be nice than be interesting. Instead of heading straight ホーム after a game, grab a ピザ with the team. The もっと見る time あなた invest in getting to know others, the easier it is for them to see あなた as an A-list friend.
PS: あなた need not dress up in dandy clothes または wear loud make up to attract people. もっと見る than artificial make up, simplicity attracts people. Smile often, make eye contact, don't look too tensed and listen to what others have to say!
Form a Study Group
Does your math teacher give super-hard exams? Is your history teacher always giving pop quizzes? Round up a few others from your class to study together each week. Ask your teacher if あなた could pass around a sign-up sheet または make an announcement about the group after class.
Detach Yourself From Technology. Temporarily!
Put away your cell phone from time to time and take a look around. Who seems funny または interesting? Which people in the room have あなた never talked to? Who pays attention to your ideas? Make a mental note and spend a little time getting to know these people face-to-face. When your group gets together, share notes and chat about class. Find out what your classmates like about the teacher and what they can't stand. Make flash cards together または クイズ one another. Bring snacks and share what's going on in your life. You'll have new フレンズ before あなた know it.
Say you're seriously crushing on a guy, would あなた run up to him and announce あなた two are now a couple and you're now going to spend every single 日 together? Um, not unless あなた want him to run in the other direction. The same goes for making friends: あなた want to take things slowly at first. Wait until あなた feel comfortable talking to each other during band practice または on the walk ホーム from the としょうかん, ライブラリ before あなた suggest getting together. Skip high-pressure または potentially awkward situations, like your grandpa's 85th birthday bash.
Opt for something casual: "So, have あなた seen that new movie? I thought it'd be fun to get a bunch of people together to go." Will it be totally nerve-wracking to make the first move? Probably but it'll have been もっと見る than worth it once the ice is broken and you're out having fun with your new friends.
And then? Don't sit back, relax and expect lasting friendships to occur. It requires communication from both sides. Therefore, call up people あなた have just met, Eメール old フレンズ who have moved away, drop in occasional sms just to say 'hi'.
Old または new... Last but not the least - don't forget old friends. If they have moved away または if あなた have moved away, be in touch with occasional phone calls and emails. Don't leave old フレンズ for the sake of new ones.