Okay so regarding the stupid fight that happened on this week's ep (because let's face it guys, it was stupid, the brothers should not be fighting at a time like this) I'm going to give my two cents on why I think Stefan was もっと見る in the right (not in the right もっと見る in the right) than Damon.
What can I say? I was proud of my Steffy this week, he finally stood up to his brother and marked his turf and I was like, about time and smiling all the way through it. But anyway, Damon really does need to back up off Elena she is not his girlfriend and even if she was that does NOT give him the right to decide what is best for her, get all up in her face when she's trying to leave and threaten her if she tries to take one もっと見る step. I mean have some respect Damon she is not your wind-up toy like Andie または Caroline was, she is a strong, independant woman and she knows what the hell she's doing okay? And Stefan does know that and he respects that and he respects her decisions and trusts in the fact that Elena knows what she's doing. Of course he will worry for her but relationships, good relationships are not founded on lust, physical attraction または electrical chemistry, they are founded on love, trust and RESPECT. Those are the most important elements to me, not having fireworks in the bedroom または whatever sure it may not always be wild and exciting, but it's stable and it's empowering which in the end will matter もっと見る in the long run. This is why I support Stelena and not Delena but that's a whole other kettle of fish.
Anyway I know people got upset with Stefan for saying that all "you will never have her respect" thing to Damon but the thing is if Damon keeps 芝居 like a child and throwing hissy fits and killing women for no reason... would あなた respect someone like that? Because I sure wouldn't. I'm still reeling from the fact that he killed her brother (and yes, that IS a big deal to anyone who gives a fuck about their family so no I will not get over it and 移動する on just because he survived the point is Damon knew exactly what he was doing and the intent was still there). But the point is Stefan has been completely civil and understanding to Damon when it comes to Elena, he would rather not make Damon back off his girlfriend because he is just glad that Damon is actually feeling something for someone other than himself but there is a where sometimes あなた just gotta step in and say "hold up, you're taking this too far, back up a bit" and that's what Stefan was doing this episode which is perfectly understandable. I mean I would 愛 to hear Delena ファン say that they would be perfectly okay with their sister being in 愛 with their boyfriend, I'd just 愛 it because I sure as hell wouldn't. And I'm quite sure that not many other people would either.
As for the apology to Elijah (I'm kinda biased in this because I worship Elijah and I will take his side against anyone) Stefan's apology was sincere in my eyes because sincere and apologetic is the type of person that Stefan is. No he did not do it because he was being Elena's 雌犬 he did it because he meant it and how did Damom react? Instead of being the adult he had to dig his heels in like the little child he is and say "go to hell". And the way he treated Andie in the end just made me lose any type of sympathy または respect I could've had for him. The way he treated her was beyond abusive and Andie just emulated the battered wife syndrome at that moment I wanted her to get the hell out of there but Damon's screwed with her mind so much that she probably doesn't know what to think.
Anyway that's my take on this episode, 愛 it, hate it, コメント on it, either way it's my view ^__^.
What can I say? I was proud of my Steffy this week, he finally stood up to his brother and marked his turf and I was like, about time and smiling all the way through it. But anyway, Damon really does need to back up off Elena she is not his girlfriend and even if she was that does NOT give him the right to decide what is best for her, get all up in her face when she's trying to leave and threaten her if she tries to take one もっと見る step. I mean have some respect Damon she is not your wind-up toy like Andie または Caroline was, she is a strong, independant woman and she knows what the hell she's doing okay? And Stefan does know that and he respects that and he respects her decisions and trusts in the fact that Elena knows what she's doing. Of course he will worry for her but relationships, good relationships are not founded on lust, physical attraction または electrical chemistry, they are founded on love, trust and RESPECT. Those are the most important elements to me, not having fireworks in the bedroom または whatever sure it may not always be wild and exciting, but it's stable and it's empowering which in the end will matter もっと見る in the long run. This is why I support Stelena and not Delena but that's a whole other kettle of fish.
Anyway I know people got upset with Stefan for saying that all "you will never have her respect" thing to Damon but the thing is if Damon keeps 芝居 like a child and throwing hissy fits and killing women for no reason... would あなた respect someone like that? Because I sure wouldn't. I'm still reeling from the fact that he killed her brother (and yes, that IS a big deal to anyone who gives a fuck about their family so no I will not get over it and 移動する on just because he survived the point is Damon knew exactly what he was doing and the intent was still there). But the point is Stefan has been completely civil and understanding to Damon when it comes to Elena, he would rather not make Damon back off his girlfriend because he is just glad that Damon is actually feeling something for someone other than himself but there is a where sometimes あなた just gotta step in and say "hold up, you're taking this too far, back up a bit" and that's what Stefan was doing this episode which is perfectly understandable. I mean I would 愛 to hear Delena ファン say that they would be perfectly okay with their sister being in 愛 with their boyfriend, I'd just 愛 it because I sure as hell wouldn't. And I'm quite sure that not many other people would either.
As for the apology to Elijah (I'm kinda biased in this because I worship Elijah and I will take his side against anyone) Stefan's apology was sincere in my eyes because sincere and apologetic is the type of person that Stefan is. No he did not do it because he was being Elena's 雌犬 he did it because he meant it and how did Damom react? Instead of being the adult he had to dig his heels in like the little child he is and say "go to hell". And the way he treated Andie in the end just made me lose any type of sympathy または respect I could've had for him. The way he treated her was beyond abusive and Andie just emulated the battered wife syndrome at that moment I wanted her to get the hell out of there but Damon's screwed with her mind so much that she probably doesn't know what to think.
Anyway that's my take on this episode, 愛 it, hate it, コメント on it, either way it's my view ^__^.