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How to get over social anxiety?

Anyone know how to get over social anxiety?

 unknownK5 posted 1年以上前
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EgoMouse said:
Get over it.
...Well, thats what my professor says, he's an introvert but he seems like an extrovert.
His class, あなた must say something for input in order to get an A. If あなた don't, あなた won't get anything over a C. And thats how life usually works. It gives あなた priority to rid of your social anxiety in a timely matter.
Now my answer...well, first is targeting your issues. Keep a journal and write down all your anxieties. Your feelings, your actions, everything. Don't leave anything out.
After that, I would use false confidence. Whenever you're around people, fake your confidence in yourself. Never say anything bad about yourself even if its false. Don't even think about anything bad about yourself. You're perfect. The instant あなた say something bad about yourself, I'm going to lose interest in you. Simple as that, screw your drama. Praise yourself whenever あなた speak out your mind.
After that stage, あなた should lose your anxiety. You'll think less of how people think about your responses, which is the majority of the problems most people fear.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thank あなた :D
unknownK5 posted 1年以上前
Liechtenstein13 said:
I think i have a similar problem. On the internet, it's much easier to talk to people 与えられた あなた have time to think about it, and i'm もっと見る open towards my friends. I think the answer is もっと見る KNOWING what あなた have to say, and knowing the idea can be accepted the way あなた want によって those around you. I over-think this and end up extremely quiet, afraid of other peoples' responses. The quickest way, i think, is having something to speak up for. My mom had this problem and it went away when i was born (the something to speak up for). あなた need a real reason to get over it. I haven't found a reason yet either.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thank あなた very much and I hope あなた find your reason soon as well. Good luck to あなた too!
unknownK5 posted 1年以上前
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Somewhere along the line あなた also make a choice, subconsciously, to say something wholeheartedly. It's either wholehearted, または not at all. Most people don't seem to have this problem. And when the time comes where あなた need to speak up, あなた have to decide to wholeheartedly otherwise あなた shut yourself out. Giving yourself a reason is giving yourself a wholehearted determination and when the moment counts, あなた will speak up.
Liechtenstein13 posted 1年以上前
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I hope we both can get over this. It's a very annoying problem.
Liechtenstein13 posted 1年以上前
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Thank you. I hope あなた succeed as well.
unknownK5 posted 1年以上前
dooodle said:
Have あなた actually been diagnosed with social anxiety? または no? Just try and spend もっと見る time with people to ease your anxiety/shyness. What makes あなた feel anxious?
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posted 1年以上前 
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I get really nervous when I talk to other people, like always thinking what to say, how to say it, if I should move, where I should look and I just feel so acquired... The biggest problems is spiking up in front of others, like in school when あなた have to present your project. Although I know everything, I always end up freezing または trembling in fear of who knows what... A problem is also when a teacher askes me something – my ハート, 心 start’s to beet faster and my hands get all swetty and I can’t really focus than… And I think it is stopping me from really living. I am practically living in shadows and I think a half of my classmates don’t even know I exist and that’s just because I’m to scared to speak up my mind.
unknownK5 posted 1年以上前
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It is just so strange to see all those people talking carelessly in front of the audience, when あなた stand there hopelessly and just wonder: how do they do it? Why I am so week?
unknownK5 posted 1年以上前
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I understand. In reality it's probably not as bad as あなた think, they probably do know who あなた are. Just take baby steps - Try starting a conversation with someone over somethink あなた both like または have in common, going out with your フレンズ more. The もっと見る あなた branch out, the less you'll get nervous around people. あなた seem quite nice, I'm sure peoople will like you! (: I hope あなた suceed in overcoming this! I hope that this helps, because in some ways I'm a lot like you. I'm always afraid I'm doing the wrong thing, get nervous a lot, but it's obviously not so extreme that I end up trembling. Anyways, good luck again!
dooodle posted 1年以上前
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Thank あなた very much!
unknownK5 posted 1年以上前
rosedawson1 said:
So while some people say oh go out and try to make フレンズ and practice talking that can sometimes be to hard and not really productive. I do have social anxiety diagnosed and everything and there are a few things that help me.
1.Don't spend time around people every 秒 of everyday try getting some alone time and do somethings that あなた enjoy.
2.I have some フレンズ with social anxiety and i helps because they understand that sometimes we need to be left alone and they respect that.
3.If あなた do have to be in places with a lot of people,like school, and あなた start to freak out try focusing on something that doesn't bother あなた like a book または a poster on a wall.
4.As for the speaking in front of your class あなた can ask あなた teacher if あなた can present it just for her they will usually understand.
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Simmeh said:
Hmm... I don't know. Ever since I finally got a job a couple years ago, I haven't felt as... awkward. I mean, I still do, but I begin to not give a fuck after a while.
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