Someone please help me my girl friend is hurting herself.

HA! HA! Looky here I see an attention whore.

u should tell her that cutting herslef isn't gonna help her any way ever. she can die from it あなた know? tell her how much あなた 愛 & care for her & if she really cares for あなた back, she would stop. i would seriously advise she gets help & talks to someone. maybe あなた could ask what her problem is & あなた two could sort things out. then maybe, hopefully she'll stop.

That's very tricky. If I were あなた I'd let her know that everything is alright and that her mother does care. Sometimes when あなた are upset あなた start to think people who care about あなた don't. Let her know that cutting isn't good and suggest an alternative like listening to 音楽 または 読書 a book. Let her know that あなた care and that you're there for her.

I would tell her that, while it is her choice, there are other ways to go about dealing with your pain. It's not easy if あなた become addicted, but there's ways to stop. Tell her to think about happy times and remind her that あなた 愛 her, that might help. As well, suggest some things to do instead, such as hold an ice cube in her hand または put a rubber band around her wrist and flick it when she feels bad. Though that last option still causes some pain, that itself will help her get over cutting, and cutting is much もっと見る dangerous. I'd suggest more, but I can't think well right now, sorry... What's her username?

Then convince her that cutting won't solve anything. Maybe counselling and interventions will help.

Tell her to find a councillor to help her または tell her to let her anger out in some other way. For example, when she gets mad または sad she can draw または write about what happened.

I understand. I also have aspergers, and it is very hard for me to be social, as well. あなた should tell her that while cutting may provide temporary relief, it won't last forever, and soon she will end up doing it so much that she will injure herself to the point where it won't provide relief anymore, just もっと見る pain. She may even kill herself. Express your concern to her. It doesn't need to be anything super long, it can just be something simple like: "I'd be really sad if something happened to you." Anyway, I don't know how much this helps, but as we probably both know, being social is a HUGE challenge.

I suggest あなた try to work to gain enough money to buy yourself a new computer. あなた have to try somehow. Do anything あなた can. She obviously loves あなた enough to cut her self just because she doesn't talk to あなた enough.

im going to be honest here nothing harsh just what i think and what i think u should do...

first off this is *fanpop* no *datepop* no offense but how do u know what the other person is doing while off line? online dating for teens and adults is not 安全, 安全です nor rasional

sec あなた mom 発言しました not to be on chats and online on sites like this i believe u should respect ur mom enough to listen to her

third she cant be cutting that much ik i use to have to habit myself and no body can with stand that much trama without going in gto some kind of shock..if shes harming herself just bc her computer broke means shes got seriou emotional trama which will make it harder on the relationship if not medically strightened out (ik i had to take meds myself for that kinda trama)

now if shes doing it for attention then there もっと見る mental and emotional trama then we think または she maybe playing u with it just for attention and pity im not saying its the case but its highly possiable.

NOW my アドバイス either way tell an adult 表示する ur mom the messages and her help dont sit around and say u cant bc u can if u 愛 u and dont want to lose and want her better tell someone who can really help her.

Tell her that cutting herself is not going to take away the pain. It will only add to the pain. または get a councellor to help. Tell her to try relaxing. When I'm in stress, I just sit quietly and relax. It always works. または maybe listen to music.