CAN あなた PLEASE HELP ME?????????????? I don't want to make things seem worse on this other website I'm on...

I've got an account on myfconline.com (Oblivious_Nature) and it's kinda difficult when people are suggesting あなた to a guy that's single that WAS MARRIED TO THE 前 ERIC and I know it'll just make things awkward; so I really want help! I do like the guy though...