あなた should compare behavior in the person under suspicion to their "base" behavior, if possible. In other words, if they always have shifty eyes, then this trait can't be considered as an indication of lying. On the other hand, if they are normally very calm under pressure, but start shifting in their chair after certain questions, that may indicate lying. Because all techniques fail at times, あなた should use several indications before assuming the person has lied.
How To Tell If Someone Is Lying によって Testing Responses
One way to test for lying, is to measure a persons desire to avoid a subject, which will sometimes indicate dishonesty または guilt. If あなた think the person is lying, change the subject quickly. A lying person will often go along easily, and may even visibly relax. An innocent person is もっと見る likely to be slightly confused によって the change and want to finish their thoughts.
Another lie detecting technique is to suggest something that would make a guilty person feel uncomfortable and watch for a response. Suppose your wife Jane says she was at her mother's house, and あなた think she is lying. Rather than saying, "I'm calling your mother to verify this," あなた could use a subtle approach. あなた might say, "That reminds me, I'm going to stop によって your mother's house today to fix that door for her." <
If your wife was lying, the idea of あなた seeing her mother should make her nervous. She may give あなた reasons why あなた shouldn't go there. Of course, if your relationship has reached the point where あなた feel the necessity to resort to these techniques, a simple lie may not be the worst of your problems. Still, sometimes あなた need to know, so here are a few もっと見る ways to tell if someone is lying.
They are using your words. Using your exact words to respond can be an indication of lying. あなた say, for example, "Did あなた leave this here?" and they respond, "No, I did not leave this here."
They use un-contracted words. A lack of contractions is もっと見る common when lying. For example, instead of saying "I didn't sleep with her," a man might say," I did not have sexual relations with that woman." Again, compare to base behavior, though, as some people may not use contractions often anyhow.
Over-compensation. Often when people lie, they try too hard to be natural, and they give もっと見る detail than is necessary.
Forced smiles. A real smile involves もっと見る muscles, while a forced smile will use just the muscles around the mouth. The lie here may only be about their feelings, of course.
Let them talk. The もっと見る a person talks, the もっと見る likely あなた are to catch them in a lie (if they are being dishonest), especially when あなた learn the indications to watch for. These are just a few of the ways how to tell if someone is lying.
