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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my 愛 for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other 日 i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother 発言しました " No もっと見る mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
 mjrocks13 posted 1年以上前
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lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with あなた there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps あなた going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for あなた in physical form. MJ's there for あなた in spiritual form. But your family will be によって your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that あなた truly 愛 him, but don't let that blind あなた from the people that will be there with あなた at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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posted 1年以上前 
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted 1年以上前
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lol thanks! ;)
lucaslover528 posted 1年以上前
WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ ファン of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a ファン of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a ファン of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your 愛 for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted ファン and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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posted 1年以上前 
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thanks that really touches my ハート, 心
mjrocks13 posted 1年以上前
zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I 愛 my obsession:D
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posted 1年以上前 
UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my 愛 for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that あなた couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy あなた one if I knew あなた :)
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posted 1年以上前 
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awww i would buy u one too
mjrocks13 posted 1年以上前
zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw または know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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posted 1年以上前 
sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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posted 1年以上前 
PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to 愛 MJ...

But loving him もっと見る than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

あなた did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe あなた should talk to a psychiatrist to see why あなた feel this way.
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posted 1年以上前 
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted 1年以上前
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is もっと見る than one shrink out there. あなた just need to find the right one.
PaisleyPark posted 1年以上前
AimieDawn said:
From knowing other ファン of Michael, I know they have connections to him によって his 音楽 and his love. But あなた do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, あなた should never 愛 anyone もっと見る than your family. Especially someone あなた never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I 愛 Michael, I truly do. あなた don't have to get every single thing related to him to 表示する how much あなた 愛 him. It's about love, not obsession または material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to 表示する your love.

Please get help and try spending もっと見る time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even もっと見る sick to see how many ファン are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so あなた all approve of loving someone あなた never even knew もっと見る than your family? Oh whatever.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted 1年以上前
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
mjrocks13 posted 1年以上前
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And あなた think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but あなた really think he would've picked a ランダム ファン to be there for?
AimieDawn posted 1年以上前
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^ Bit harsh...
lucaslover528 posted 1年以上前
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