Theres this friend of mine who has a boyfriend, but he is like two yrs older than her and is very rude, smokes and is half the time drunk! Only problem is, she DOESN'T see that! Do I tell her for her own safety, または not get involved?
Difficult situation. When I was 16 my best friend got with a guy in his 40s and ロスト her virginity to him, and he beat the crap out of her all the time. After finally seeing her come to school with a bruise on her arm the size of a baseball, I had to say something. So I told her I thought he was no good for her and she deserved better. She got so mad at me. She wads willing to forgive me if I just kept my mouth shut. But I had to stop hanging out with her for awhile until she came to her senses, because I decided I could not stand によって and watch her be abused and disrespected and not say anything and just let it happen. We stopped hanging out for awhile, but we're フレンズ now. :)
I think the answer to this 質問 is simple : Of course あなた tell her. The thing is, that あなた have to tell her in a way that does not insult her または her boyfriend. Explain the fact that あなた care for her and that フレンズ are supposed to give advises to each other. Since あなた know her あなた should know her demeanor so advise her accordingly...
posted １年以上前
'kay. I'm just asking, 'cause she is fifteen & her boyfriend is 17. I'm only thirteen. thanks :)
no problem... boys at this age are way too immature... she will have to be careful... trust me I'm 17 and I can assure あなた that they are not easy to handle... especially if she is younger
If she really loves him there's nothing あなた can do to change that. But telling her would still definitely be a good idea, but don't insult him, that would automatically set her against your argument. On the other hand, if he actually loves her back, the chances of him hurting her are pretty much 0. And if he doesn't then whats the point of them being together? Just saying, but it would still be better 安全, 安全です than sorry.
posted １年以上前
uh, correction: He doesn't 愛 her. Proof? I saw him and his mate talking down a lane saying that he is just playing along the fact he loves her, but actually the reason he wanted a girlfriend was so he could...(how would あなた put it?) have one. Yes my friend loves him, but he is just using her and just playing along. I don't know, these relationship thingy's are too complicated for me. :(
I never 発言しました he did 愛 her, I don't know the excact situation, so I just 発言しました if he did.. but the thing is, if he doesn't 愛 her, and she loves him as much as あなた say- I'm trying to be pesimistic here i swear- its gonna hurt her more, emotionally.
あなた have to tell her........but who she loves is who she loves あなた cant change that so let her know that あなた dont think he is good for her but remember that if she truely loves him she wont care
posted １年以上前
true, i 発言しました that to her and she just looked at me blackly and walked off, she still hasn't talked to me!
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