Why does 愛 hurt? Can あなた be hurt and still love?

I can forgive but i wont forget and that hurts so now I start to think...
 latinlover posted 1年以上前
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isabelle_905 said:
Real 愛 doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real 愛 is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much もっと見る bearable. 愛 is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on 火災, 火 and makes あなた do things あなた would’ve never done was it not for that other person. 愛 blinds あなた and makes あなた see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time.

It’s the absence of 愛 that hurts; it’s the falling out of 愛 または not having 愛 または not having reciprocal 愛 that hurts.


Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again:

"I've 発言しました before, 愛 doesn't hurt, and if a man hits あなた once, he will hit あなた again." ~ Oprah Winfrey
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 Real 愛 doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real 愛 is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much もっと見る bearable. 愛 is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on 火災, 火 and makes あなた do things あなた would’ve never done was it not for that other person. 愛 blinds あなた and makes あなた see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time. It’s the absence of 愛 that hurts; it’s the falling out of 愛 または not having 愛 または not having reciprocal 愛 that hurts. Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again: "I've 発言しました before, 愛 doesn't hurt, and if a man hits あなた once, he will hit あなた again." ~ Oprah Winfrey
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;( i never knew luv could be so deep
cutegurl211 posted 1年以上前
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Is that true
xizzy7 posted 1年以上前
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no idea..never dated before!!!
nasiruae posted 1年以上前
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jacob4ever57 said:
There are lots of reasons why 愛 hurts. Maybe あなた just broke up with someone and あなた still 愛 them, または maybe あなた haven't seen the one あなた 愛 in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes あなた can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. 愛 will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once あなた find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)
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 There are lots of reasons why 愛 hurts. Maybe あなた just broke up with someone and あなた still 愛 them, または maybe あなた haven't seen the one あなた 愛 in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes あなた can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. 愛 will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once あなた find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)
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me at the moment to haha
latinlover posted 1年以上前
EverybodyLies said:
all the dang time.
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emo_grl_4eva said:
I know 愛 hurts and I know what it feels like.
I was in 愛 with this guy whom I did 愛 but he let lust ruin it and in a way he did abuse me slighty. I've felt worthless ever since and every time I look at him または someone mentions him it opens up old wounds and I have to hold it together または else i'd break down to the floor holding myself for support. Even though I'm with someone whom I want to spend the rest of my days with I still feel what I felt before and I dont think anything will ever change that. SO when あなた 愛 expect pain.
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cutegurl211 said:
so many guys lyk me...........but the guy i lyk,doesnt even bother to look at me または even say hi.....if i smile at him, he makes a face.
it was when he kissed another girl, dat i found out he was already in luv with sum1 else ;(
i almost cry every night beacause of this.
did i HAVE to see them kiss? ;(
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but i really think i still want him..........
cutegurl211 posted 1年以上前
angel-of-power said:
愛 hurts cause あなた can 愛 someone and they will ignor u.
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i totally agree
TeamSethRocks posted 1年以上前
juliet_fan said:
i dont know why but 愛 hurts and あなた still can 愛 and hurt, it may not be always true that 愛 hurts but i'm speaking on experience 愛 can hurt if it gets the chance.
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I've been in 愛 with this guy and he pretending as if he was in 愛 with me for two years. I didn't realize it at the time untill I was siting in my room one night and I called him just to see how he was doing, only to hear his answer that's your reason for call.my reason for telling u this is that when u 愛 someone no matter how much ur hurting ur 愛 for that person over come ur pain at time...I let my 愛 for that person over come my pain.. And feel that's why am still hurting up till this day.
1love posted 1年以上前
Deans_Girl said:
愛 isnt 愛 without hurt.

愛 is like magic because あなた are able to experience every emotion; happiness, frustration, pleasure and hurt. with out feeling pain, how do あなた no there is pain to feel. pain lets us know we have a reason for sorrow, a reason for life and , A REASON FOR LOVE
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felicity1111 said:
a person can break your ハート, 心 but あなた can still 愛 them and its almost imposible to fogive and forget especialy for girls
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TeamSethRocks said:
あなた can be hurt and still love
i asked this guy out but never got and answer
this girl whos supposed 2 be 1 on of my best フレンズ got dunped and 2 weeks later asked the guy i just asked out
and he 発言しました yes
:'(
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ljsb said:
If I like someone and they hurt me i don't forgive them because if they break my ハート, 心 it still hurts but only if i really liked them...
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lizzietwilight said:
Loving people hurts because あなた 愛 them
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cherry7878 said:
愛 hurts cuz u use ur ハート, 心 to feel and theres noway to bounce back from a broken heart
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booklover13 said:
愛 hurts because when it doesnt hurt, its the best feeling in the world...so there has to be something to even out all that good :)
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jeftelover said:
ugh!sometimes i hate love!really hurts.
once i started to cry cause my boyfreind
kissed another girl...:(
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autumnstander said:
i know 愛 dose hurt and yes u can be still in love
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cuddly-pandas said:
Sometimes 愛 can hurt because あなた feel bad
things and あなた 愛 the person so much, あなた don't
understand how to deal または control the things you
feel for them.
Of course あなた can still 愛 even when you're
hurt. If あなた really 愛 the person, あなた can live
and get through really tough times あなた experience
and still love.
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Hinata-Snow said:
愛 hurts. Period. But 愛 can happen anyway, that's what makes it wonderful.
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xenriquegrl said:
Yes あなた can still 愛 and hurt at the same time. But get the hurt out of you, because it is not good 4 u. によって your problem, something serious is keeping u from living. But their's always hope and u will 愛 again.
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Saku15 said:
There're so many reasons why 愛 hurts. First of all: When あなた 愛 someone and he/she dosen't 愛 あなた back.
The 秒 most painful thing in 愛 when your lover goes with an other boy/girl and lies about it.
The third is the break-up. When あなた don't think anyone but him/her and cries very much.

I was in 愛 but I didn't feel any of these options.
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sehdt said:
愛 hurts when あなた 愛 someone but they can not または will not 愛 あなた back.
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hellokittykat93 said:
anyone can do anything but it is hard to 愛 again after あなた have been hurt
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prity10 said:
愛 is a mixture of alot of things and one of them is hurt and pain if u want to expirence 愛 then u have to go trough the pain 愛 gives u............ yes u can be in pain and still 愛 that is only called true 愛 if u forget ur 愛 becoz its too painfull then u cant call it love...

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Rachael-111 said:
愛 does hurt and u feel that pain in ur ハート, 心 until u find someone new
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Of course あなた can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of 愛 to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to 愛 no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :)

and Thank God!
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 Of course あなた can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of 愛 to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to 愛 no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :) and Thank God!
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nasiruae said:

no idea..never dated before!!!
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 no idea..never dated before!!!
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sweettomato said:
Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes..
Is what happens in relationship.
And sometimes, it's just too much to continue..
Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up..
But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To 愛 them still..
Because あなた both know... あなた never gonna be strong without each other!
Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait!
and あなた neither living nor dead without them!
あなた will give them power to destroy you, but..
あなた trust them once again... not to 表示する u How painful 愛 can be!
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 Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes.. Is what happens in relationship. And sometimes, it's just too much to continue.. Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up.. But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To 愛 them still.. Because あなた both know... あなた never gonna be strong without each other! Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait! and あなた neither living nor dead without them! あなた will give them power to destroy you, but.. あなた trust them once again... not to 表示する u How painful 愛 can be!
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ZarieViana said:
Yeah one can be hurt and 愛 again coz ロスト 愛 must be forgotten no matter how hard it may appear
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cachuira said:
Y dose living zones one hurts so bad
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writer67 said:
true 愛 doesn't hurt, it breaks down barriers, and it can change many things, if we are willing to listen to your heart. im glad u r able to forgive, as u try to mend ur ハート, 心 , but it obviously wasn't ment to b , n u r very wise to have made the positive step, the mature step * so try not to think too much, have some time for u, go out with friends, buy urself something, give ur self a new hairdo. true 愛 is being strong enough to b able to let it , または them go, it may hurt like no tomo, but if it was true 愛 it will b back, but u will b wiser. a holiday may b on the cards. for 愛 takes a lot of work, but from two, that are equal, 愛 is a language all of its own, true 愛 no words r req, it clicks, so stand proud, your ハート, 心 does know love. with luck u will find ur soul mate, but let the past go.u r strong enough to let it go, so blooming well done, proud of あなた * peace be with you)

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