How do あなた know when your ex hates you?

We ended on a good note, it wasn't a bad break up または anything and he even 発言しました he didn't want it to end. But he hasn't spoke to me in a 月 and he 発言しました he would still talk to me and meet up with me and stuff and he hasn't....yet, anyway. And also like 2 weeks 前 i went on フェイスブック and as soon as I went online he went off, do あなた think he hates me または what? i'm confused. I haven't done anything either. Cause when he left me he told me he loves me but the relationship has to end cause he could end up hurting me. Do あなた think he hates me または do あなた think he still likes me?
 RnBStar13 posted 1年以上前
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cookiehead101 said:
i dont think he hates u i just think he needs some time または he just feels awkward cuz after all u r his ex so maybe he just feels awkward または needs some 宇宙 just leave him alone if it continues 次 time u c him ask him if anythings wrong または if u did something 2 offend him
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posted 1年以上前 
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I have left him alone, I haven't bothered him at all.Like I 発言しました I haven't spoke to him in a 月 . And I will
RnBStar13 posted 1年以上前
Karthigesh said:
Sweetie, let me speak to あなた from a guy's perspective. I doubt it is easy for him to talk to あなた normally now after breaking up. It's always hard for exes to stay friends, especially during the beginning stages where it is just plain awkward. This awkwardness can however go away if the guy puts in the effort to be a little もっと見る mature about it and talk to you....

Truthfully I think he is still isn't quite over あなた yet, maybe that is why he is avoiding you. あなた should give him some time, and see if he talks to あなた soon, because when he is ready he will. If he still doesn't then あなた are better off, just not talking to him altogether because it is a matter of mutual respect and friendship.

One last thing sweetie, never ever, blame yourself and think あなた are the one at fault. I know あなた are quite confused about his behavior but あなた have done nothing wrong so do not think that he hates you. He has his own issues and he needs to work through them, trust me, if あなた are important to him, he would work hard on it and be フレンズ with you, like what a proper gentleman of a guy should do.

Never let yourself feel second-best okay? somewhere out there is a guy who will treat あなた as his priority, and give あなた the 愛 that あなた deserve :D keep your head held high always
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posted 1年以上前 
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I know, but he promised to still talk to me and meet up with me, do あなた think he is just giving it time and that he will talk to me? and I won't thanks for the great アドバイス :)
RnBStar13 posted 1年以上前
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Guys are always cautious about a girl's feelings. I think he is nervous and a little afraid to talk to you, because it is a big change, from couple to friends. He just needs to realize that he can still 愛 あなた as a friend and watch over あなた and care for あなた and be there for あなた when あなた need a shoulder. Most of all he will want あなた to be happy. I can see he means a lot to あなた so I really do hope he works up the courage and be フレンズ with あなた again. Any man can make a promise sweetie, only a real man keeps it...
Karthigesh posted 1年以上前
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