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Karthigesh said:
あなた can make the first 移動する if あなた want, start によって just talking and getting to know him first, ask him about his likes and dislikes and also whether または not あなた 2 share things in common. If the both of あなた are already フレンズ または somehow know each other then あなた can bypass this stage and go to the 次 one.
I suggest asking him out but not with the both of あなた first, ask him out with a group of friends, but when あなた are out, take some time to talk to him and let him see あなた in a もっと見る social sense. After this, then ask him out one-on-one, but keep it casual, nothing too fancy. A movie または a ディナー would work just fine, take him somewhere あなた like, that way あなた can be the one taking charge and あなた can tell him what to order and such. The big part of any date, is nerves, from both him and you, so bringing him somewhere familiar to あなた will help to ease this part.
Do this a few times, then start to open up to him, tell him about your feelings, this part is crucial because it will allow あなた to see if he really likes あなた または does he just have a mere crush on you. If he opens up to あなた and shares as well, then that shows that he trusts あなた and sees あなた as someone he can talk to and confide in. Once this is done, let him know how あなた feel.
I can tell he might be shy and hesitant but if あなた feel that he is someone あなた can see being with then take the chance. Sometimes people come out of their shell when another person brings them out of it. He may be a shy person now but underneath all that he could be a charming, hopeless romantic who will devote himself to あなた :)
All the best and may 愛 guide you....
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