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Okay so I got with my boyfriend like 3 weeks 前 and it seems like he's losing interest already.
When I first got with him he'd be begging to spend some time with me after college and this past week it hasn't been like that at all.
He hasn't been asking me to come over to his place and he's been going to his friends. Do あなた think he still likes me? または is this a sign he's losing interest in me?
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IDK U SHOULD ASK HIM ABOUT WHAT`S GOING ON & I WISH THE LUCK 4 U
i_love_me posted １年以上前
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Thank あなた :)
RnBStar13 posted １年以上前
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NP =)
i_love_me posted １年以上前
 RnBStar13 posted １年以上前
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littlelemon said:
Hmmm, this is a tricky one. Somehow I don't think a guy can be all over someone one minute, then get bored of them the next. I honestly couldn't say if he still likes あなた または not, because I don't know the whole situation, but I would recommend talking to him about it. It might not be that he's bored of you, maybe there's just something going on at ホーム または with フレンズ または something and he just feels that he needs to it out. または perhaps he's just not sure how あなた feel about him and doesn't want to push his luck with you. Whatever it is, the best way is just to be there for him, and encourage him, または reassure him of how あなた feel if that's what he needs. If it turns out that he is bored of you, then that isn't your problem, so don't stress about it. Just go find another guy who'll 愛 あなた forever, not just 3 weeks. Good Luck!
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posted １年以上前 
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Actually I confronted him about it today when I went out with him before and he told me he still loves me and stuff but I feel like he doesn't, maybe I'm just insecure.
RnBStar13 posted １年以上前
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I think that's just a part of the whole going-out thing. あなた tend to feel like he/she doesn't reallu 愛 あなた at the beginning of a relationship. Just give it time, if あなた have a long lasting relationship, you'll start to have もっと見る faith in him.
littlelemon posted １年以上前
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I hope so, I really like him but my parents say he's not worth it and I can do better
RnBStar13 posted １年以上前
Karthigesh said:
Well, as a guy, I can tell あなた for a fact that something might be bothering him that he isn't sharing with you. He could be afraid または insecure about something, which he finds hard maybe, to share with you. Try and speak to him and open up some stuff about yourself to him as well, once he is comfortable, he would open up slowly to あなた as well, that way he would be able to find comfort in あなた with regards to whatever is bothering him.

Then go on to explain that no matter how hard things are, as long as あなた and him have each other, あなた can always overcome it together. I doubt that he doesn't 愛 you, I'm sure he does, but I sense that something is preventing him from giving あなた his all...
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posted １年以上前 
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My parents think he's not worth it. We was supposed to be going out with each other today and he sent me a message saying "I feel sick, I can't come out" I think he's just making up excuses to not see me now :'( and he was 40 分 late when I was waiting for him yesterday. He rung me up saying "I'll be there in a minute" 40 分 later he finally came. I was waiting out in the freezing cold for him for 40 minutes.
RnBStar13 posted １年以上前
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What matters is you, dear :) I suggest あなた call him up and tell him straight out, and ask what is wrong with him and why he is behaving this way. Tell him your ハート, 心 isn't something that he can take for granted, あなた chose him and he should feel lucky because あなた are with him. I hope he is honest with you, because if he isn't then he is truly hurting you. あなた need to find the answer as to why he is like this from him like right now because the longer it drags on, あなた will be one left hurt. I still stand によって what I 発言しました and that is that something is bothering him and he is afraid to open up to you.
Karthigesh posted １年以上前
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