why are guys so mean to girls

my exboyfriend is always mean to me
 why are guys so mean to girls
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and why are あなた so sexist?
OTAKU77 posted 1年以上前
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when think uh like somebone maybe just ba crush and ubthortbit
123456lo posted 1年以上前
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and uu thortit was goung be reall thing
123456lo posted 1年以上前
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Emma01 said:
I heard its because they like you.

They just cant express it.

*From personal experience and observations*

Its like little kids; when kids are small the only way to express they like あなた is によって having him pull her hair.

^^

Its called cute flirting.
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 I heard its because they like you. They just cant express it. *From personal experience and observations* Its like little kids; when kids are small the only way to express they like あなた is によって having him pull her hair. ^^ Its called cute flirting.
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I agree with Emma01 100% :P
Sephisis17 posted 1年以上前
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LabraLege said:
Yes yes, they suck! This is normal, he is your ex. But aren't girls being mean to boys all the time? Sometimes I feel disguse for us, actually. We are もっと見る selfish than we think. Let's stop being only victims! Some of us are mean to every boy we don't like. It makes us double!
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posted 1年以上前 
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Yeah it's totally true. We can be complete bitches to guys and still call ourselves the victims. I totally agree with you.
mercifulgirl666 posted 1年以上前
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yea we can be so mean, to be honest thats why most of my フレンズ are guys
skytail127 posted 1年以上前
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that is very true.personal experience
phangs posted 1年以上前
sweeneytodd9999 said:
Boys who are mean to girls are mean to everyone, and those guys are usually the ugliest ones, who want the others to feel bad and inferior to them. When they discover something "wrong" または just different with that person (like a problem, a crush, a too tall または a too small person, a girl wearing a bit of make-up...)they start being mean and just don't stop! It's awful, I know, but あなた just have to ignore it. If your ex boyfriend is being mean to あなた ignore it. If he goes too far and あなた just can't take it anymore, あなた smash him on the face または in the dick (it hurts so much that he will definitly stop).
And my ex was being mean to me too. Don't know why, but who understands boys? I wish I could.
I kept ignoring him and now he apologized. but it won't be the same anymore, that's guaranteed.
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posted 1年以上前 
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True, They be mean to me for some of the reasons :'( (Well NOT most of the boys (; )
poddo posted 1年以上前
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ya usualy a bully is just a bully, he's not worth your attention
skytail127 posted 1年以上前
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need look at bthereb selevesv some blive their bselves why dont vthey have a ハート, 心 n stop liying
123456lo posted 1年以上前
Sephisis17 said:
こんにちは people! I'm a guy, and I'd just like to speak for myself here. I'm not mean to girls. Never were and I'll probably never be. For one simple reason: they're the opposite sex, which means we guys are attracted to girls によって nature. And I have to say that most of them are reeeeeaaallly cute. I know that あなた mean guys in general, but some of us are different. Some of us are kind and gentle to you, including me =D. P.S. That was pretty lame but still :P
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thats so True
RanmaRaj posted 1年以上前
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haha true true not all dudes are the same
latinlover posted 1年以上前
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agreed, there are as many mean girls as there are boys, if not もっと見る
skytail127 posted 1年以上前
Rupa said:
accordin to me guys just r using girls these days....its lyk when ever u need them u go to them
n at other times "i dunno who she is"....be really careful coz its happened 2 me too
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posted 1年以上前 
Laurencia7 said:
Because they suck! LOL
It depends on the relationship, try talking if that doesn't work...cut him loose, あなた don't need that.
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posted 1年以上前 
nxtactress said:
Some guys r just jerks! They think they're 'soo cool' and try 2 impress their friends. Some guys don't know how 2 act around a girl they like. And some guys r just doing what guys do, being guys. Only 2 of my ex-boyfriends talk 2 me, the one who dumped me, and the other one who I dumped. The one who dumped me I hate his guts soo much, I can't believe I dated him in the first place; he's selfish, immature, irresponsible, spoiled rotten, and a stupid moron.
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ditto... why do girls like us end up falling for such douche bags? XD
CCSunshine posted 1年以上前
daddiesgirl said:
The reason your ex-boyfriend is so mean to あなた is because he jealous of who ever has stolen your heart. Its not that guys are jerks because not all are its just that he thinks that によって being an jerk he can win あなた back. Just tell him he needs to stop because it just makes him seem like a child. He needs to face the facts that you've moved on.
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posted 1年以上前 
Deans_Girl said:
okay did あなた dump him? if あなた did he probs still has feelings for you, but just and is hurt that あなた dumped him, his actions are out of frustration with himself not you.

if he dumped あなた he probs regrets his decision and and want あなた back, guys heads can be twisted he doesn't understand that being mean inst the way.

either way ignore him and take time to see how he reacts when your around other guys. situations with ex's can be messy and are best left alone.
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posted 1年以上前 
summerlynn1978 said:
Its because he is mad at あなた for breaking up with him so hes trying to et u back.
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Lizzy-ILoveJB said:
It's cuz they like u and r 2 'embarressed' 2 express it cuz he thinks his フレンズ will make fun of him! (HAPPENS 2 ME 2!!)
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posted 1年以上前 
RanmaRaj said:
Well I am a guy and can assure あなた that all guys are NOT mean.
Also the guys that are mean to gals are mean to everyone.
Believe me this is First Hand Information.
('.')
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posted 1年以上前 
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i think every guy can be mean ... well not mean but they 表示する off sometimes being rude with a girl ... usually the one they like .. WHY? they suckk! aagh haha im a ハート, 心 broken right noow ... so i hatee guys haha lol
fegzii posted 1年以上前
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Well maybe あなた are right. But I still think that all guys are not mean. I felt that I was mean to a girl yesterday but it was in reality due to her mild meanness
RanmaRaj posted 1年以上前
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あなた know what fegzii girls tend to be meaner than guys, also, they may be playing with you, not understanding that あなた dont find it funny too! stop being so dramatic and learn to take a joke!!!
skytail127 posted 1年以上前
kristinrocks said:
boys are too immature they never call theyer always trying to 表示する off but that is normal
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LinaJC said:
most of the time guys, like in my school, don't think it's not cool to be all friendly to girls so i think that's why they are mean. just to act cool in front of their friends. sucks, right?
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I would understand why your ex would be mean, it could mean that he's either still in 愛 with あなた または he feels sorry for dumping あなた and acts mean to help あなた get over him quicker. Well, if he was nice it'd be like that, but some guys just are mean like that. Some guys might've just been raised up being mean to girls.
jariahvue posted 1年以上前
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i don't completely think that. even some guys who are mean to girls, sometimes they 表示する mercy and is nice to girls. and why would their parents raise them to be mean girls?????? seriously!
LinaJC posted 1年以上前
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it's not always them being mean, it may be あなた being dramatic!!!
skytail127 posted 1年以上前
Frances_17 said:
They think that women will think they are good guys all big and bad so they will like them,but we girls don't like that. We like the sweet guys taht 愛 you. Not the assholes that treat us like shit.
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posted 1年以上前 
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agree sweet not shit 愛 is the things we want not beeing treated like shit
e2mma2weasle3 posted 1年以上前
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Yeah they think we are Idiots ( temper rising) * evil smile*
anime_lover posted 1年以上前
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ya but the problem with that is guys can use that sweetness, and make u fall for them and it sucks cuz its wen u get in a serious relation ship u realize what dick they r
miyaismykitty posted 1年以上前
penelope001 said:
your Ex, oviously wants あなた back!! (provoking) so, its his indirect unovious way of communicating it.. (annoying). but its cute.., not really..
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posted 1年以上前 
dsgirl said:
It could mean they like あなた または they just want to push your buttons. 'cause there was this guy who was always mean to me but he never liked me he just wanted to because it was fun to him. :(. & I don't like him.
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posted 1年以上前 
angel-of-power said:
some say a boy makes fun of a girl cause they like her...i think boys think there tough and can push girls around but not all boys r like that
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posted 1年以上前 
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mhm... Not all boys but many
anime_lover posted 1年以上前
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usually the "when a boy makes fun of a girl it mean he likes her" only lasts untill grade 5
miyaismykitty posted 1年以上前
123maddie said:
Most people say boys abuse girls because they 愛 them. Sounds stupid, right? Its 100% true. So it means your ex boyfriends still has feeling for you.......
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well not becuz they luv them, its hard to explain, they do luv u but they do it cuz its like a controling thing, they dont want u to leave them, so they feel the need to harm u so u'll stay, somthing like that anyways
miyaismykitty posted 1年以上前
Lunzzy1 said:
have あなた ever heared the saying that when boys are mean to girls that means they like them but it could be wrong boys could be mean to girls because they dont know how to let out how they feel because are suppose to be strong but they just dont know how to say i 愛 あなた and they hide that from people and they have this ego that says to just be mean dont tell how あなた feel because of what others might think of him leting out his feelings to a girl.Hope I help :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!
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 have あなた ever heared the saying that when boys are mean to girls that means they like them but it could be wrong boys could be mean to girls because they dont know how to let out how they feel because are suppose to be strong but they just dont know how to say i 愛 あなた and they hide that from people and they have this ego that says to just be mean dont tell how あなた feel because of what others might think of him leting out his feelings to a girl.Hope I help :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!
posted 1年以上前 
whitelight1412 said:
Not all guys are mean. あなた just happen to fall for the wrong guys.
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posted 1年以上前 
Abilei said:
I think it goes with the "they broke my heart" thing.

If a guy is mean to あなた during your preteen years there's a chance he likes you. If he's nice to あなた during your highschool years there's a chance he likes you. But guys mature later in life so guys that are mean mean to あなた even into your highschool years could still have a crush on you.

(I hope that made sence and helped.)
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posted 1年以上前 
Black_cat_ said:
well ex's r usually mean coz of how its ended with u. but otherwise i dont know, im as nice as i can b with girls, not for any purpose ,just to be フレンズ ^_^
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kwnstantina13 said:
casuse they are a******* all they care about is theirselves they are hurting us and they dont care
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こんにちは not all guys are like that, i agree for the majority but not all are arseholes . i do my best to try and make my フレンズ feel as gd as they can and i always try and b as selfless as possible, i dont like attention but like giveing. so keep an open mind coz some guys are the idiots that most people know hun
Black_cat_ posted 1年以上前
felicity1111 said:
i dont know but they always either take advantage of us または are really mean to us. if ur a guy nock it off!
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jeydonfan101 said:
I thought it was because they like u but I could be misken but we can also be mean to them to so we arent the only vics in the siution
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posted 1年以上前 
E-rock said:
Yeah its yer ex.
Not EVERY guy is.

Am not. [:
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posted 1年以上前 
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hey, um im in the process of making a website its going to be called WhatsMilenaSayinNow? anyone is welcome there. If あなた have any guy trouble, family problems. ANYTHING! im there for you. whatever あなた tell me stays between あなた and I no one will know. Im a great girl that would 愛 to give あなた advice. please help me make this website a success! thanks. <3milena.
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miyaismykitty said:
not all guys are mean, it just seems like that cuz(no afense to guys) there usually not as mature as girls, it takes them longer to mature, but it is true that there r bad guys who r out there, it usaully is because they were raised in bad surrondings, i personaly think that u shud brake up with a boy once he gets controllin, cuz that can lead to a bunch of things
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dearjohnlOv3r23 said:
hey, um im in the process of making a website its going to be called WhatsMilenaSayinNow? anyone is welcome there. If あなた have any guy trouble, family problems. ANYTHING! im there for you. whatever あなた tell me stays between あなた and I no one will know. Im a great girl that would 愛 to give あなた advice. please help me make this website a success! thanks. <3milena.
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posted 1年以上前 
sam_642 said:
Most boys and guys are like that!!
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posted 1年以上前 
ljsb said:
Some people think is beause they like u......but i don't really know

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 Some people think is beause they like u......but i don't really know
posted 1年以上前 
Miranda-Cullen said:
o well i think they r mean cause they like あなた i mean i guess it prob depends on the age あなた are cause middle skool guys use to b mean to the girls they liked yet i thnk as we get older guys find diff ways of telling a girl they like them
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posted 1年以上前 
ellie_bellie135 said:
They're not. Only dicks, ex-boyfriends, and guys who like you. Course there will always be people who flat out don't like you. But it's possible your ex is just at his anger stage of grief and just hasn't healed properly. または flat out does,t like you. あなた can never tell. Rrrrr -.-
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posted 1年以上前 
jeftelover said:
that happend to me.i broke up with my
ex and now hes alwase yelling at me and saying
i hate you!lol...
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posted 1年以上前 
borg3 said:
I can tell u
we re flirting with u girls and that's why we re doin it ;D
We re doin it because we like u girlz
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posted 1年以上前 
iloveBTR said:
they either like あなた または are jealous of you. i personally don't see what they have to be jealous of; we're the ones that go through pain and agony, giving birth to their children while they just have a fun time getting into our pants
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posted 1年以上前 
autumnstander said:
when someone is mean to u that means they have feelings for u still
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 when someone is mean to u that means they have feelings for u still
posted 1年以上前 
cuddly-pandas said:
Not all guys suck. Some are really sweet. But
sometimes when a boy is mean to a girl, it's
because they like them. They try to get attention
from the girl even if it is negative.
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posted 1年以上前 
shadrack said:
There are many resons i'll just quot a few
[1.]sometimes a guy wants to inpress the girl he is with so much that he puts his wants aside for あなた he may send あなた little hints like my buddy went to see so and so in コンサート last week i think that is so cool he mite say, if this sounds fimillyer then he is looking for your input not 2 say this is every guy and this depends on both the guy and または what kind of relisnship あなた have with eachother but some of us guys have seen abuse towards women and don't want to be that guy so we try hard to inpress and leave ourself out,
[2]It mite not concern あなた at all maybe he is going trough a tuff time, this is not a excuss at all what i am saying is that thourghout history a man is showed and または told what makes him a man and the one i have a hard time with as a man we to be strong for a women when somthing is bothering me, it,s like if i talk to the oppisit sex then i may not look the part of a strong and smooth super hero type anymore,and the same is to talk to my buddy about it, so where do i go mom または dad maybe i want to inpress them too most likly i just think it out in my own little head untill i have a solution and thean i'll shear what was going on at that point.
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posted 1年以上前 
lolipop120 said:
hu...i think that his way of loving u または 表示中 that he is storng and 表示中 that he loves u im not good giveing advies
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 hu...i think that his way of loving u または 表示中 that he is storng and 表示中 that he loves u im not good giveing advies
posted 1年以上前 
jbeatty5336 said:
As I was told によって an "ex" (the dumper)..."I'm trying to forget you". Nice! This was from someone who made me promise to be a friend forever. I tried to be a friend and catch up on news but he verbally attacked me and patronized me. I'll never speak to him again.
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posted 1年以上前 
xenriquegrl said:
Cuz, they like you. They might deny this but guys have this strange way of expressing their feelings. Some of them is because they really like to 表示する off. But no matter how mean an ex is with you, just know that it's so not your fault.
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posted 1年以上前 
iliveingallifey said:
guys r to stuped to 表示する there feeling または they r scard to be rejected
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posted 1年以上前 
RnBStar13 said:
Because they are arseholes!
Kick him in the balls!!!!!!!!!
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posted 1年以上前 
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That 2. U go girl!
xenriquegrl posted 1年以上前
dxcfan said:
Because boys don't know anything, especially when they see a girl they like. Boys are their meanest when they see a girl that is pretty, and it's also because of their egos. All boys have egos, some bigger than others. Sometimes egos can make boys be jerks to girls, even to ones they like.

Some boys are just mean because their jerks.
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posted 1年以上前 
kairi13050 said:
the guys that are mean to girls are either just mean または douche bags. but あなた all act like all guys are mean. あなた people are disgusting. not all guys are that mean. i've never met a guy that is that bad ... except this one kid ... but he's crazy ... O_o

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posted 1年以上前 
141516 said:
some are butts some r not
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posted 1年以上前 
larrah111 said:
Not all guys are mean... someguys are mean I've had guys be really means to me but most guys are really nice. I would assume that if they're mean that they either hate あなた または Really like あなた and don't know how to 表示する it :)
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posted 1年以上前 
shivers-zimmy said:
I wouldn't say all boys.

I think your ex is being mean to あなた because he either still likes you, または he misses the times あなた guys spent together-and trust me theres a big difference. But the guy is trying to cover it up so he's 芝居 like a complete jerk-off in hopes that no one will see through his game. Lucky for you, I do.

Trust me on this though, just ignore him.
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posted 1年以上前 
writer67 said:
some guys find it hard to talk of how they feel when they hurt, and its easier to say the words to hurt another, and to 表示する feelings isnt a sign of a good guy, got to be tough strong and macho, dont have to talk much. but most guys when they get older and have daughters we realise, how we were, and there is no way that is going to happen to our daughters. and for a guy to let his gf now of himself, can lead to betrayal at times of parture. samson and delilah. blame is easier than acepting the responsibility of acceptance of the wrong. its easier to say its your fault, SOME will say they are wrong and makeups can begin to mend two broken hearts, to either become freinds または partners または to part as mature persons to go their seperate ways.;-]
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posted 1年以上前 
Saku15 said:
The guys've a very evil and mean side, but usually they're very kind.
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hellokittykat93 said:
maybe they are just jealous of あなた have あなた moved on that could b why
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posted 1年以上前 
monkeyrockla said:
Well sum arnt meen. But sum are complete 尻, お尻 HOLES! not all but sum. But why. Cuz they have no other idea how to act
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posted 1年以上前 
mhz_johnson said:
Because they are jerks some times
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posted 1年以上前 
dramaqueen189 said:
THERE MEANISS IS JUST ANOTHER WAY OF SAY I LIKE または I STILL LIKE YOU

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posted 1年以上前 
someone_save_me said:
Not all of them are, ugh. T_T
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posted 1年以上前 
carebear16 said:
its because they like あなた sometimes または they just really hate you. My ex boyfriend and i fight all the time and sometimes out of know where he tells me he loves me. So I know he is being mean because he likes me still even tho he has a gf and he cheated on her with me like 5 times he doesnt break up with her because I say know every time he asks me out becuase I know he will break up with me and run back to his ex
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posted 1年以上前 
kaitgirl7676 said:
Well that really sucks. Not all guys are like that, though I've met もっと見る than my fair share of abusive men. Don't generalissimo all men into that because it will affect your mindst and offend others as well.
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posted 1年以上前 
violetpinkgirl said:
try to ignore him the best あなた can i just broke up with this boy and a 月 later he asks me out again and I 発言しました yes just an 時 前 we were just about to hang up and he 発言しました bye,love あなた and I 発言しました 愛 あなた too but was it an epic fail to forgive him?

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posted 1年以上前 
Rachael-111 said:
Ok u r sexist and girls r not mean to guys and guys r not mean to girls.

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posted 1年以上前 
Sapin said:
Well if It's your Ex then No wonder he's mean to you.
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posted 1年以上前 
CCSunshine said:
Let me put it too あなた this way...

Some guys are stupid womanizers that have no regard for feelings other than his.They cheat. They're rude. They'll break your heart.

But most guys will 愛 あなた もっと見る than they could ever 愛 anyone else. They'll hug you. They'll キッス you. But あなた must know that they'll also break your ハート, 心 if youre not careful.
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posted 1年以上前 
wanae12 said:
Haha my ex was just f*cking harassing me a 秒 ago. But my current boyfriend is not mean so あなた might wanna add that some in there
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posted 1年以上前 
phangs said:
first,your ex has been hurt.in any relationship,when あなた break up,you both get hurt.it dosnt matter who broke up with who,or why they did it.you both got hurt.second,if all guys are mean to you,listen to whan im about to say...look for others.not all guys are the same.do あなた hang with the punks?go talk with the poets.do あなた hang out with the バスケットボール, バスケット ボール team?go hang with the swim team.you just have to change your MO.
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posted 1年以上前 
joisyhearts said:
it depends... i mean, some guys are mean to girls because they genuinely hate them and when あなた don't like someone, あなた tend to be mean to them. but sometimes, guys are mean to girls b/c they secretly like them, but they don't know how to express it.
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posted 1年以上前 
charmquiana6 said:
some guys are mean to あなた because they like あなた they can say it in your face they 表示する あなた によって being mean to あなた and getting their フレンズ to hit あなた a something または doing something crazy once a boy liked me and all he did was be mean to me so after he told his friend that he like me and his friend told me and now i knew that he liked me

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posted 1年以上前 
swiftfan1 said:
こんにちは one of my フレンズ told me that a guy hurts あなた または is mean to u just cause he loves あなた a lot :p

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posted 1年以上前 
Cpu64 said:
Guys all start out nice, then after enough girls them like they're worthless, they start treating girls back the same way.
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posted 1年以上前 
123456lo said:
Ciz. These. Guys bthink they are. Better bthan u. And. Like tonlie bfir the vsakenif it,fuckingbidiots. need. Their heads. Sirting out, got bsumic not. Right bwith them, brains. Dont buse. Them,just think of. There. Sekves and how. To hurt glasses and. Girls. For no reason, un natural me 尻, お尻 and. We are not. Ugly look at ur. Self and ur. Inner self and stop being so so. Nasty. To woman, they. Hate. Woman fir no reason maybe. Gay. ,, asshole. Characture. And. Piss takers
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