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This has been added to the Huddy spot yesterday and I've been waiting for it to be added here too, but surprisingly no one did....so I'm adding it.
Not really understanding the Huddy spot and the private party that's going on there.
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Katia1997 said:
@caramelmilk, how long are you going to blame Huddy spot in everything what is only possible?? We having, as you say, 'private party' because we want so and because a lot of people don't like going here. We don't owe you or others on this spot a single thing. It's our business were post stuff we found.
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AreKay said:
@caramelmilk

Thanks for adding this to the House, MD spot!!!
posted 1年以上前.
 
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salemslot said:
Very interesting questions. Masters being a concoction of all the basic female characters. Hmm, now that's sth I really want to see. Very nice things about Samson and Huddy.

Thanks cami for adding this here!
posted 1年以上前.
 
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Katia1997, I hestitate to get involved in this because I don't like banging my head against brick walls, but I would argue that the "private party" that has basically run a lot of us Huddy fans out of that spot owes us A LOT. Its actually not just your business where you post stuff. No one is obliged to post things in this spot, but you are obliged to only post Huddy content in the Huddy spot, and you are expected, at least by me, to respect other people's opinions even when they differ from your own. And what has happened here, in caramelmilk's comment, is that you ( the collective "you", as in the "private party" Huddy fans) have been treated with the same respect that you have afforded us. Ain't that nice, is it?
Now, I'm sure you and your buddies will run away back to the Huddy spot and talk about how I'm a horrible bitch and I eat babies and rape kittens because I haven't found Jesus in my toasted sandwhich, but just have a think about how you would like it if I said those things about you or tried to bully YOU out of the Huddy spot. Treat others in the same way you expect and want to be treated and maybe, just maybe, the Huddy spot wouldn't be the decaying hell-hole that it is now.

End of slightly irrelevant venting rant.
posted 1年以上前.
 
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tammyr50 said:
I have respect for everyone's opinion. I play some of the games on this spot and have a good time. I love House. I have tried to post things here and being new didn't get it all right. Not exactly the most friendly either.
We love this show and we are going to ship different couples and like different things.
I don't think that it is all one-sided as far as getting along.
I have not seen any bullying. I do see different opinions and I don't see why that has to be a fight. We are watching the same show. If we have differences that are legitimate then we should act like grown-ups and say that. I am new. When I get in from work i just surf to see everyone's opinion. See if there are any questions to answer. It is cool to me that we all love this show. Do we?
It was late when that link came up and I don't think anyone left anyone out on purpose. I post things here all the time.
It's all good to me.
I can see why people ship Huddy, Hacy, and Hameron. Can you? Do you stop and look at the couples and this show. I loved Cameron. I loved Stacy. I also love what Cuddy has repreasented in House's life the entire time. She was open to him being with Cameron or Stacy.
What is the argument about? I am being polite and asking this question?
I enjoy reading other thoughts and ideas because they are interesting and I don't thing I am always right.
I don't think you are a B----, eat babies, or rape kittens. I think you are an intelligent woman who has a different opinion than i do. That's ok. I have treated eveyone with respect because everyone brings something different to the table.
The Huddy spot is doing fine and this one is too.
If you saw the link why didn't you just post it without making such a big deal?

posted 1年以上前.
 
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^ We seem to have the roughly the same opinion anyway...

This isn't about who ships what. I was just responding to Katia1997's comment which is representative of much bigger issues in the Huddy spot. Perhaps you haven't seen the bullying because a) they try to "hide" most of it in forums, or b) you haven't been on the receiving end of any of it.
posted 1年以上前.
 
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tammyr50 said:
I have been on the receiving end of it when someone doesn't ship the same couple but it wasn't a big deal because I thought it was just passionate people with different opinions.

But it is not a responsibility to post it is a courtesy and I have seen people post things when it is late and it not be completely perfect and someone make a big deal out of it because it was grouped wrong. So maybe if they don't post it is because when they have tried and it wasn't perfect they were made to feel bad about it. Or maybe it was just late and they were just trying to get the link up. I think HL posted that and she is one of the most considerate poppers that I have talked to.

Maybe we could take the high road and set a good example and just be polite to each other from here on out. Write a new chapter. Turn the page.

This is fun and although we have strong opinions maybe we could learn to show tolerance for each other or thank each other when someone does post a link or a picture or a video or etc.

This is a talented group of women from what I have seen and pretty intelligent. We should treat each other accordingly. I this case I don't think anyone done anything out of disrespect.
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Exactly, thats all I have ever asked for. But in this case this is Huddy fans turning on other Huddy fans. Those of us who are trying to travel along that high road and set good examples are being abused for it. At the end of the day, it gets extremely annoying to constantly be polite to a bunch of people who have no interest in being polite in return. Its extremely annoying to be tolerant of other people's opinions, only to have them bash you for yours. So, in a perfect world, your comments are definitely the desired course of action. However, people like Cami and I have been here for years, and the abuse within the Huddy fandom has never been as bad as it is now. Our tolerance and politeness about the issue got us nothing but abuse and personal attacks on our character.
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tammyr50 said:
I have found one thing the world can be no better than I present myself in it. If you have been offended then I get it but have you ever offended anyone?
Maybe all these threads are different because it was the best way to respect each other's space. Everyone is interested in different things and if we can't agree to disagree then we have to have different threads but when someone does put their best foot forward even if they are coming from a different place then we should learn to thank each other and give intelligent but polite responses.
Someone posted an article that was apparently not appropriate for the thread but wanted to get different opinions. They told them it wasn't appropriate and it didn't belong here.
It was an article that had been researched and was open for interpretation. Give an opinion but not derogatory comments are not necessary. That is what leads to the animosity. That comes from both sides.

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^ Now I have no idea what you are referring too.

I guess all I want is for people to respect each other, and right now, there is one group in particular around here that believes that they are so damn superior that they do not need to respect anyone else. Thats sad and it makes a particiular fandom look very ugly, when in reality most of the members of that fandom are not like that at all.
posted 1年以上前.
 
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tammyr50 said:
I don't know exactly what you are rederring to either. the fact is you said
At the end of the day, it gets extremely annoying to constantly be polite to a bunch of people who have no interest in being polite in return. Its extremely annoying to be tolerant of other people's opinions, only to have them bash you for yours.

So I respect that you are saying that you feel that a group has been abusive. But it has happened on this side also that people have been impolite. It is either a decision that we will make right now to stop it and put our best foot forward and not assume the worst of each other or it will stay the same.
I say this respectfully and that I really think we should all try to see each other's side.
You can't monitor everything to know what each person is doing. So you have to take each person and each action individually and not group people into together.
Truthfully, I do not think that the link was purposely not posted.
I take each person at face value. I do not group or judge people. I get to know them individually. No two people agree on everything.
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Yeah... We aren't talking about the same things here...
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tammyr50 said:
Yeah............. We are talking about the same things. I was trying to pass an olive branch.
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Yeah, I get that. But we are not talking about the same things. Same issue, but I think perhaps you are a chapter behind in the story, like I said earlier. The olvie branch has been tried and it failed. Which is kinda the whole point of what I have been saying...
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tammyr50 said:
OK
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