Can some1 help plz?

Well, with anything, あなた can't just spring something like that on him any old time. あなた need to tell him at a time when things are good between あなた two. It's got to be when there's no problems または grudges. But don't バター him up; that's too obvious and almost never works. Sit him down at a time when あなた don't have anywhere to go または anything to do and, if あなた ONLY want to tell him, when no one else is around. Be calm about it and state it plainly. Don't beat around the ブッシュ too much. あなた just need to be confident and when あなた are, he'll be less likely to say things like "it's just a phase" または "you'll grow out of it", because this is a thing that あなた probably won't grow out of. Just be mature.

Good luck! I hope things go well.

Now im guessing since my parents dont give a shit bout me much less the fact im gay. id say just try to be nice about it, and remember its as much a part of あなた as the color of your skin. idk if thats any help though

well as i did i went up to my dad and 発言しました i needed to tell him something and he sat down and listened now start it off with a good understatement like for a while now または its been like this for a while and... and just explain to him that ur bi BUT dont over do it または ur chances will go down for him to understand that and no need to b a jerk but what right does he have to b madd at u its just the way u r he cant change tht but then again hes not my dad but thats my advise