What did あなた think about Elena saying to Damon: "If you're mad at me, get over it" in 3x15?

It may be weird, but I was angrier with her in this last episode than I was in the 前 one. Sure I didn't like what she 発言しました (maybe that's the problem), but あなた could see she regretted it the moment she 発言しました it and afterwards she told Stefan she 発言しました something she didn't mean.
But the fact that she didn't apologize, that really bugs me. Hurting the man who's been there for her in her hardest times, who's always put her first, had her back and then say he needs to get over it? That was a real bitchy thing to do. At that moment she really only cared for her own feelings. I know it's not true, but right now it feels as if she has been using Damon and his 愛 for her to get Stefan back.
I still 愛 her, but I'm just really angry with her, so I hope she does some crawling in the dust for Damon.
For all we know, Damon could be the one ending up apoligizing for turning Abby and somehow causing a crack in Elena and Bonnie's friendship.

I think it is very hypocritical. Everyone is so hard on Damon, but they never consider all the mistakes that Elena has made. When he screws up, she stays mad at him for episodes and then she claims that he deserves it because he hurt her. But when she hurts him, no one seems to think that he should treat her any differently. It's a double standard. I am mad at Elena and will stay that way for awhile. If I wasn't a Delena fan, I might think he deserves someone better.

I won't lie, my jaw dropped in disbelief when she 発言しました that to him and it made me really mad. I definitely feel she owes him an apology for treating his feelings so lightly and treading all over them. However, after my initial fury wore off, I forced myself to take a step back and try to see things from her point of view.

Elena's life is quite literally falling apart. Stefan has completely gone off the deep end, her best フレンズ are constantly being attacked によって people she introduced them to, she's just gone against every moral instinct she has and manipulated her brother's memory and sent him away, she's struggling with how she should handle the situation with the Originals and then, on 上, ページのトップへ of all that, she's recently realized she's in 愛 with two men and has no idea how to handle any of it. She feels like everything bad that's happening to the people she loves is her fault and that she's failed at every turn while trying to protect them.

From her perspective, a chance at meeting with Mama Original is the first big break she's had in a long time and she truly believes that it will lead to knocking out everyone's biggest threat. And then Damon comes along, and he genuinely has Elena's best interest at heart, but he goes about it completely the wrong way によって talking down to her and trying to control her. Of course we know Damon is only trying to take care of her, but from where she's standing it seems like he doesn't trust her and after the way she once trusted him when no one else did, it hurts her feelings. So she lashes out and hurts him, just like most people do when their feelings are hurt.

So both of them feel betrayed によって the other and since Elena knows Damon and his tendency to act out when he's hurt, she's worried about him but can’t get him on the phone. When she finally reaches him the 次 morning after a night of worrying and fearing the worst (did anyone else notice she slept with her Teddy - the same one that Damon loves so much?), she finds out he didn't answer because he simply didn't want to talk to her, which simultaneously makes her feel guilty for what she did to him and mad at him for making her worry, so she once again lashes out. It was a defense mechanism, pure and simple.

It's easy to be angry at Elena for hurting Damon because we all 愛 him and are protective of him - and after the pain he's been through, he deserves to finally be happy. But we have to remember that Elena has been through a lot of pain too. She's much もっと見る introverted and doesn't openly 表示する her feelings the way Damon does, so it's easy to assume she doesn't feel them, but she does. She's human and she makes mistakes. We should forgive her for doing stupid things just as we've always forgiven Damon and trust that she'll do the right thing in the end. There's no point in being angry at Elena または the writers. It's all part of the journey :)

I HATED her when she 発言しました it
The writers are making Elena look like a bitch

It was so rude!! She didn't even apologize! It's like she doesn't think she did anything wrong. Everyone always seems to think "Elena's perfect" when she's not. No one is, but she doesn't need to be rude. Damon was just trying to protect her and now after the 最近 episode she'll probably be even もっと見る mad at him for saving her yet again. I really don't like Elena sometimes.

I wish I could be furious with Elena but it's the writers that I'm angry with. They're 書く Elena so out of character and making her out to be a 雌犬 and she's not. If the writers don't get their acts together they are going to lose a lot of viewers.