What happens in our lives doesn't affect how close we are to God. We get closer to him によって giving him もっと見る of our time, によって acknowledging his power in the hardest of times and seeing his greatness through it all.
somtimes we can be burdend with life many setbacks, its all a test of endurance. and yes its hard, but あなた must understand, that god is a god of compassion, mercy and love. he would never allow あなた to be tested anymore than あなた can handle. stay strong, keep the faith, and continue to live によって the words of the gospels each 日 of your life. and then あなた may see change accure.