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I'm a Christian teen and I need some help, it's about dating.

There is a guy in my youth group that I've liked for 11 months, about six months 前 he finally got on the right path with God and I liked him even more. We started talking もっと見る then. The closer we got as フレンズ the もっと見る I liked him. Two months 前 I told him that I liked him and now we never talk.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? Please help me, I don't know what to do. I've prayed and prayed but can someone please give me some advise?
 hottie23 posted １年以上前
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abs07 said:
Have あなた asked God to give あなた peace about the situation? Sometimes we just have to let these things go. Have あなた tried talking to him? Like small talk to smooth things over? If あなた have & he gave/gives あなた the cold shoulder then I'd back off. If あなた really feel like there's something left to say after much prayer & seeking God, then ask Him to guide your words if あなた need to confront the guy. Be nice. If you're ok being his friend, let him know if that's what God puts on your heart. If he's still standoffish after that, I'd definitely leave the him alone cause clearly he'd have a lot of growing up to do...
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posted １年以上前 
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I've asked God for peace but every time I come close to finding peace this guy will do something that my feelings for him come back. Thanks for the help:)
hottie23 posted １年以上前
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Well just be フレンズ with him if he doens't want to 日付 あなた not saying your feeling would just go away but at least he's フレンズ with あなた then who knows mayba he will start to like あなた back ♥
huddygirl2 posted １年以上前
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It's ok to have feelings but asking God for peace isn't a one time deal. あなた have to seek him daily for the help for renewed strength and grace with the situation. So that whether things work out または not, あなた will be fantastic with God at your side.
abs07 posted １年以上前
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thank あなた both, that really helped me:)
hottie23 posted １年以上前
nathoonder said:
Sometimes when i find myself troubled i ask myself, how will this situation effect me in ten years? But I konw its sucks having a broken ハート, 心 but keep prayihng and get support from your フレンズ is the only アドバイス i have to give in that regard. Hope everything works out 4 u.
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posted １年以上前 
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thanks for the advice:)
hottie23 posted １年以上前
LadyL68 said:
He stoped talking to あなた after あなた 発言しました あなた like him? I'm sorry.

Maybe he likes あなた too, & just wasn't ready for a relationship. または maybe he only liked あなた as a friend.

Either way, it's worth talking to him. Call him または confront him 次 time あなた go to Church. Ask him if he's angry, & apologise if あなた offended him in any way. Tell him you're ready to get back on track with him.
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posted １年以上前 
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thanks for the アドバイス but it's been four months since i've talked to him and i've pretty much gotten over him. i apologized and tried to talk to him about things but he blew me off. we go to diffenrent churches now and i rarely see him anymore so since he was being imature, and is still 芝居 that way, that just means he's not ready for a relationship, doesn't like me, または isn't the one for me and I'm fine with that now.
hottie23 posted １年以上前
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