I'm a Spuffy shipper 100%, and I'm also a diehard Cangel fan. Bangel was sweet for a first love, but I think both Buffy and エンジェル went on to have deeper, もっと見る fulfilling and meaningful relationships with Spike and Cordy - relationships that were built on friendship and trust and not just 愛 at first sight and shared misery. Spike and Buffy changed each other - as did エンジェル and Cordelia - in the best possible way. They brought out the best in one another and truly completed and complemented each other :)
I've always been a Spuffy ファン and always will be. While I understand and accept that Bangel relationship were needed and were important for the story and Buffy's development, I feel like they were もっと見る of a first 愛 kind of thing and while first 愛 is a huge deal and indeed can have a great impact on your life, it doesn't mean it's going to be your only love. And I feel like Buffy and Spike built a stronger relationship based on mutual trust and によって the end of the 表示する they could rely on each other the way they could never rely on anyone else and they proved it countless times in season 7 that they would trust each other with eyes closed. They sticked together even though after all the tough and dark stuff they've been through it would have been easier to just walk away and give up on each other, but they never did. The connection they formed helped them to survive and save the world together.
Spuffy all the way for me, I think they suit each other best. Their chemistry is out of this world and they have great development and understand each other. によって S7 I think Buffy is in 愛 with Spike and sees him in new ways since he got his soul. They inspire each other and support each other.
I also ship Cangel for the same reasons, I think they suit each other and support each other and have incredible chemistry together.