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Is it okay to not have a boyfriend または even a crush on a boy at my age?

I'm 14 and already in high school. And I've noticed something, pretty much everyone is either crushing または being crushed(HA! Justin likes Valerie XD).

Why hasn't this sort of stuff been happening to me yet?

The only thing close to that is way back in the 4th grade and a boy was all flirty to me and stuff....OH WHY DIDN'T I UNDERSTAND 愛 BACK THEN! WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER!!! ....wow スープ opera much... -.-


Anyway,,,can anyone tell me why this "love" is taking way too long >-< *getting pissed*


 NoahFanNumber1 posted 1年以上前
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Vixie79 said:
Yes, it's okay not to be crushing on anyone at your age または dating anyone either. There isn't any rules pertaining to when あなた should または shouldn't anyway, it's up to you. You're still young, あなた should go out and have fun and be yourself. Don't worry about guys and don't try to be pressured into thinking your strange about not having feelings for anyone. It's not important, it will come naturally to あなた later and if not, that's still okay too.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Great answer. I agree.
Moonbeam1953 posted 1年以上前
Heartisalone said:
You're probably just not attracted to any of the boys around you.
I think it's good not to start too much 愛 and romance in school and wait until your done.
あなた can focus もっと見る on your work.
And plus the whole Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing in school usually doesn't last too long...
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posted 1年以上前 
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true, true. thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted 1年以上前
TotalDramaChick said:
Of course. It's absouluty okay. When I was in 5th grade i didn't like ANYBODY. My フレンズ would say " Whats wrong with so and so loves あなた soo much and あなた don't like him back???" .. Now I'm your age and i'm going into my sophmore year. (that dosen't have to do with anything xD) Well maybe you're just not ready, または maybe your scared people are gonna find out who あなた like, または nervous your gonna get made fun of. I don't know. Well hope this works out soon. :)
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posted 1年以上前 
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I also agree with Heartisalone too. I think mine dosen't make any sense..
TotalDramaChick posted 1年以上前
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^I like both :) thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted 1年以上前
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You're welcome :)
TotalDramaChick posted 1年以上前
deathroman13 said:
You're only 14 so don't worry.

I have the same and I'm almost 17.
I do hang out a lot with boys but I don't have a crush and I'm not in love.
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posted 1年以上前 
snapeislove said:
Well, I don't think it's normal (as the whole world thinks) but I am 17 and I don't have a crush at the moment.

If it comes, it does. Keep that in mind. :D
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posted 1年以上前 
sehdt said:
We all do things at different rates. I am 36 had boyfriends in the past. But not any もっと見る I do have friendships with boys and men and I do have a crush but I am not in love. Unless あなた are one of those to whom it never happens but even if it is its あなた and your life so dont worry just be you. Otherwise I am sure it will happen.
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posted 1年以上前 
almuno01 said:
Dont worry lol same here but don worry u still haave your whole life to find someone
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posted 1年以上前 
iluvsmj said:
well ur in highschool so yeah あなた can date.
14 idk あなた should wait til 16
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posted 1年以上前 
CornChips said:
It's fine, there's no rule that says あなた have to have a crush on someone. I wish I was like あなた at the moment, I got a crush that I want to go away now lol xD
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thats hard when あなた can not get them out of your head.
sehdt posted 1年以上前
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Very true .__.
CornChips posted 1年以上前
wierdgem7 said:
It's totally fine. I'm single, and I find it can help because あなた can discover yourself, and be independent. Stay focused on あなた and YOUR dreams. Anyway, some of these crushes can get SERIOUSLY messed up. If あなた like someone and they don't like あなた back, that is sooooooooooo embarassing.
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posted 1年以上前 
xVanilla-Saltx said:
It's perfectly fine. I'm happily single, too - and not interested in dating right now. Sometimes, the people who あなた can have crushes on aren't really all that desirable. At this age there will still be a lot of immature boys, and あなた should feel proud that あなた haven't jumped into the dating pool just because everybody else has. It makes no difference in who あなた are, または your self-worth. It's extremely normal; some people don't even start dating until after college. I wouldn't worry about it - let nature take it's course and you'll find the one who あなた are meant to be with, opposed to forcing yourself to do what's considered 'normal' によって your peers. Enjoy the freedom of being single; there are things that あなた won't be able to do when you're in a relationship! It's perfectly normal. Good luck.
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posted 1年以上前 
rkz18 said:
It's totally natural to not be attracted to boys. Most women aren't. あなた probably won't start liking these "boys" until they turn into "men". And puberty is not over yet for you, try time learning who あなた are. This is a wonderful time, where あなた actually have the time to learn about yourself. Males take way to much time.
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posted 1年以上前 
Brittanagleefan said:
Yes. But people are always 芝居 like it's impossible not to have a crush on anyone, it sucks.
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