are there アニメ for romance but without gore.....iv watch ""say i 愛 you""but are there any other like it?

Some really sweet romance ones are:

Kimi ni Todoke [picture]- most like Say "I 愛 You"
Itazura na Kiss
Kaichou wa Maid-sama
The Wallflower
Inu X Boku SS
Kodocha
Brothers Conflict
Lovely Complex
My Little Monster

The Future Di- yeah, no. Alright, being serious because there are some actual good ones.

His and Her Circumstances (AKA Kare Kano) *pic*
Fruits Basket (The マンガ もっと見る so than the anime, but the アニメ is still sweet)
Ouran High School Host Club (Same as Fruits Basket)
Kanon
Clannad (Have not seen myself, but I've heard it's good)
Air TV (Same as Clannad)
Romeo x Juliet (some fighting, but nothing gory)