愛 advice, urgent please.

Oh thats really sad :( I know how it feels because i have ロスト the guy i loved too, and I also have very mild bipolar.
If it was me, I wouldn't let him go yet- あなた were engaged to him,and it's only been 2 days. so don't give up hope yet. I would leave it about another 2 days, don't go running back to him because thats what he wants. Temporarily make some distance between the two of you, don't contact him for an whole 日 または two, and use those days to plan what you're going to do next, and how you're going to get him back, because あなた aren't exactly in a good position here. Also, if あなた do ever get back with him, keep in mind that あなた should really try hard to fight urges to say its over, because i can see why that would upset him. maybe after a week if nothing あなた have thought of has worked, あなた havent been able to tell him how あなた feel and explain your side of the story, then a last resort would be あなた could write him a letter, because he can't put the phone down on a letter, または interrupt a letter. even if he doesn't admit to it, i can almost guarentee that if あなた send it he'll read it- out of curiosity if nothing else. say in the letter where あなた think あなた went wrong, and don't blame him in the letter. lightly suggest/ask whether the asshole dude manipulated your guy, and remind him of all the good times, memories and all the things あなた talked about, 一覧 why あなた 愛 him , make it very personal and make references to things only the two of あなた know about, and say everything あなた need to say. Most importantly, explain your side of the story and promise NEVER to say its over again, because guys can't stand that. however angry and hurt あなた are as あなた write the letter, DON'T blame your man because it will push him away from you. あなた could invite him round for a coffee and to talk as adults,but, あなた should end on the note that あなた 愛 him, but suggestively make it clear that あなた won't chase him forever.
If あなた need any もっと見る アドバイス as your situation progresses, または if any of my ideas don't work または あなた need もっと見る advice, don't hesitate to message me because I can always help :)
good luck getting your guy back.
Lottey :) <3 xx

ok well i say do waht u can. And i know cheezey but they say set ur 愛 if they come back it was ment to be if they dont they were not ur to keep. But good luck

im over can also mean , u dont want to argue anymore. he could be testing ou for a reaction, so dont bite, 移動する out there and redo some things あなた want to do,its gona hurt for a while , but let him go for now, focus on あなた and finding some new words. あなた need to find yourself.change something about you, hair color, cut hair, new clothes,new outlook on life. if he wants back, あなた need to redate, and relearn of one another. but あなた could use the info of were あなた both stand. over for good, friends, または never look at one another again, and no words of hi when あなた pass one another. but refind あなた first. volunteer some time somewhere, keep busy. i got bipolar too, yet manage it with dificulty, and smiles good luck, keep your chin up.;-]